JOHN M. KELLY LIBRARY A Donated by The Redemptorists of the Toronto Province from the Library Collection of Holy Redeemer College, Windsor University of St. Michael's College, Toronto TORONTO SET ■ur No A.D.ZZ ^ HOLYUCDEEMER^ARY, WMDSOA ^§5 RULES OF LIFE FOR T] PASTOR OF SOULS ti 31 f LIBRARY j RULES OF LIFE FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS FROM THE GERMAN BY Rev. T. SLATER, S.J., and Rev. A. RAUCH, S.J. TORONTO?®^. Jj Arm No_ A.D_ New York Cincinnati Chicago BENZIGER BROTHERS PRINTERS TO THE PUBLISHERS OF HOLY APOSTOLIC SEE BENZIGER'S BfrAGAZINE W holyhedeeH!rlibrarySjjdscr flibtl ©bstat. Imprimatur. Remy Lafort, Censor Librorum. ^JOHN M. FARLEY, Archbishop of New York. New York, February 11, 1909. COPYRIGHT, 1909, BY BENZIGER BROTHERS. AUTHOR'S PREFACE The author would not have ventured to offer this little book to the reverend clergy, were it not that eminent authorities and much-esteemed priests had expressed their approval and a desire that, on account of its practical value, it should be placed in the hands especially of the younger clergy. If this little work, which has cost much time and labor, should become, even to one of his fellow-priests, an inspiring friend and adviser for his life and work, the author will be satisfied. He can not but once more express his heartfelt thanks to all those who have helped him. He would also be very grateful for any advice or suggestion in order to elimi- nate defects or otherwise improve this little book, if perhaps there should be a demand for another edition. CONTENTS PART I CHAP. PAGE I. — Priestly Dignity and Necessity of Per- fection 1 II. — Priestly Dignity and Human Frailty 10 III. — Imitation of Christ 18 IV.— Holy Poverty 23 V. — Rule of Life 29 VI. — Daily Routine 34 VII.— Disposal of Time 41 VIII.— Care of Health 50 PART II I.— The Choice of a Housekeeper II. — The Unsuitable Housekeeper 59 64 III. — Mother and Sister as Housekeepers . 69 73 84 88 95 102 109 115 IV. — The Pastor and the Housekeeper V. — The Curates and the Housekeeper VI. — The Pastor and the Curates . VII. — The Curates and the Pastor . VIII. — Curates and Neighboring Priests IX. — Intercourse with Fellow-Priests X. — Discord Among Priests . . . XI. — Discord Among Priests (Continued) . 123 vii viii CONTENTS PART III CHAP. PAGE I. — The Priest at the Beginning of His Ministry 133 II. — The Priest and His Flock . . . .140 III. — The Priest and the Influential People of the Parish 148 IV. — The Priest and Civil Authorities . . 154 V. — The Priest and the Schoolmaster . .158 VI. — The Priest's Conduct Toward Women 165 VII. — The Priest in Relation to Clubs . . 175 VIII. — The Priest in His Relations with Per- sons of a Different Faith . . . 184 PART IV The Priest in Sickness 195 PART I RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS CHAPTER I PRIESTLY DIGNITY AND NECESSITY OF PERFECTION Master. Son! Be always mindful of your high dignity and calling. Be holy, be- cause the Lord is holy; for He has chosen you before a thousand others, who were bet- ter than you, who offended Him less, who kept His commandments more faithfully. He has chosen you without your merit, from pure kindness and mercy, in spite of your manifold shortcomings and great faults, and He has bestowed on you the fulness of His power. "Thou art a priest" (Ps. cix. 4). With fear and trembling remember this incom- parable dignity and calling, because much is confided to you and much will be de- manded from you on the Last Day. God has 1 2 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS designed it that thereby you shall be led one day to the greatest glory with Christ, and you shall be raised to the very height of His divinity; but keep in mind that the wrong use of this awful dignity may cast you into the depths of the eternal abyss. In this fear and in the humbleness of their heart, many holy men, however great their perfection has been, did not dare to receive the order of priesthood at all. They held themselves entirely unworthy of it. Others could only be induced by holy obedience and by the urgent advice of their superiors to take this tremendous dignity upon them- selves, and then only after years of prepara- tion spent in prayer and endless works of mortification, and in the practice of other virtues; because they continually kept be- fore their eyes the terrible responsibility which rests upon the priest's shoulders. Truly, your sacerdotal dignity, O son, sur- passes all human comprehension; for through the holy sacrament of ordination Christ has given you during your life the task of continuing the work which He, the God-Man, did upon earth, and to this end He has raised you so high as to share with you those divine powers, which He. the in- PRIESTLY DIGNITY 3 carnate Word, exercised to sanctify and beatify man and to glorify His Father. It is true, also, that all other powers which are exercised in human society for earthly ends are instituted by Him. But none, not even the highest and sublimest of them, rises be- yond the boundaries of what is transitory, neither in its nature and comprehensiveness, nor in its immediate purpose. But you as a priest share everything with Christ, who went forth from the Father and returned to Him: His mission, His sacrifice, His pow- ers, His fatherhood toward immortal souls, the aims of His actions, working, and suf- fering, viz., the glorification of God and the salvation of immortal souls. In virtue of your priesthood, which in its innermost es- sence is a true and real participation in Christ's eternal priesthood, you are, as it were, another Christ continuing His life among men. As in its very center and in its sublimest climax, your truly divine power reveals it- self in the act of consecration. It is you who speak those words which send a thrill through heaven and earth. "This is My body; this is My blood" (Matt xxvi. 26, 28) — and behold! Our Lord is obedient to 4 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS your call, obedient to the call of His crea- ture. He descends upon the altar. He hides His divinity under the appearances of bread and wine. He is present in the midst of the faithful. The heavens are filled with wonder and admiration and man is over- whelmed with awe and reverence. The creature exercises real power over the almighty Creator, in whom were all things created in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, who is before all and by whom all things consist, "in whose name every knee doth bow of those that are in heaven, on earth, and under the earth" (Philipp. ii. 10.) You as a priest have the power to offer up the holy sacrifice of the Mass, in the Re- deemer's name, in the name of the Church, of the faithful, and in your own name. This sacrifice is the true and essential represen- tation of the sacrifice of the cross, nay it is the work of redemption itself. As often as you celebrate this most holy sacrifice, you give the blessed Trinity greater glory and adoration than all mankind, all angels, and all saints have hitherto given or will give throughout all eternity. It is an infinite sacrifice of thanksgiving which renders su- PRIESTLY DIGNITY 5 perabundant thanks for all the benefits be- stowed upon mankind, whether in the order of nature or of grace. It is an infinite sac- rifice of atonement more than sufficient to blot out not only the sins of the whole world, but those of many worlds. It is an infinite sacrifice of impetration, of such power and merit as to be capable of obtaining all graces conceivable for mankind. How sublime, worthy of admiration, and wonder, O son, is the power which you exer- cise in offering up the Most Holy Sacrifice ! Not even to the highest angels is it given to consecrate; in your hand they must adore that which it is beyond their power to pro- duce. True, Our Lord allowed His most be- loved Mother and the holy angels to serve Him in the mysteries of the redemption dur- ing the thirty-three years of His visible presence on earth. But it is the priest who is to continue His work and to hand on to posterity the fruits of redemption. The Church triumphant protects the Church militant, and with inexpressible love prays to God Almighty to assist her children with His powerful grace. But it is the priest who uninterruptedly preserves the God-Man and His most august sacrifice 6 KULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS to the Church. He alone performs those mysterious acts which bring supernatural life and heavenly grace into souls to obtain life everlasting. Just as at the consecration in Mass, power is given to you, O son, over the eucharistic body of Christ, in like manner you have power over the mystic body, His holy Church, in the administration of the sacra- ments. Through holy Baptism you free the chil- dren of Adam from the slavery of Satan and lead them as children to Holy Church. You give them sanctifying grace. You raise them to the noble dignity of the chil- dren of God and make them heirs of heaven ; and thus you bestow on them an incompara- bly greater benefit than by making them kings over the whole visible creation. In the holy sacrament of Penance you ex- ercise the truly divine power to forgive sins and to retain them, to open heaven and to close it. You are enabled to dispel the dark- ness of sin and despair from the heart ; nay, to snatch souls from the very brink of eternal ruin, and to restore to them peace of heart and friendship with God. Not even to the highest angels did Our Lord say, PRIESTLY DIGNITY 7 " whose sins you shall forgive, they are for- given them ; and whose sins you shall retain, they are retained" {John xx. 23), but only to the priest. Eealize, then, O son, that you exercise greater power by restoring the life of grace to souls sleeping the death of sin than by calling to life those who are dead in body. At the altar you administer to the faith- ful the body of Christ and unite them most intimately with their God. This heavenly food renders the children of Holy Church strong like unto lions against the adversa- ries of their salvation. In it they receive the pledge of their future glorious resurrec- tion and eternal happiness. And, finally, you administer to the sick and dying the consoling sacrament of Holy Unction. Purified from sin and the rem- nants of sin, they are gently and sweetly in- spired with fresh devotion and the earnest desire of being soon with God. His own strength will gird them for their last and hardest combat. Consider and ponder well, then, how sub- lime the office is which has been confided to you; viz., to save immortal souls for life eternal — souls, so precious in God's eyes 8 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS that He sacrificed His only begotten Son, who took the form of a servant and shed His most precious blood for them! In laboring for the salvation of souls you are truly and really " God's coadjutor" (1 Cor. iii. 9). Of all His divine works, you per- form the most divine. Do not forget, however, O son, that though invested with these mysterious powers, you are not the Lord but only the Lord's servant and instrument. Whether Peter or Cephas or Apollo baptizes, it is Christ who baptizes. This, therefore, is your sacred duty, to devote yourself en- tirely to Him in true humility and to seek nothing but His honor and glory. Since you share His powers, it is your bounden duty to share His holiness also, and to be holy because He is holy (Lev. xi. 44). If you are not holy in this divine calling, you dishonor Christ, disgrace yourself, and seal your own ruin, whilst you open heaven to others through your sacerdotal dignity. Being exalted to such lofty heights, re- member that anything unbecoming in you is taken notice of. Even trifling stains be- come hideous and repulsive disorders in you, greatly diminishing the splendor of your PRIESTLY DIGNITY 9 dignity. Be an example to your flock in every regard; "in word, in conversation, in charity, in faith, in chastity" (1 Tim. iv. 12). Excel in purity of heart, in integrity of morals, in the holy spirit of self-denial, in boundless love of God and of all men ! Be a beacon to all in the splendor of all virtues ! Keep the commandments faithfully ! Have the highest esteem for the evangelical coun- sels, poverty, chastity, obedience! Thus you will be "the salt of the earth and the light of the world' ' (Matt. v. 13, 14). Your reward in heaven will be exceeding great and you will shine forth like a sun in the realms of your heavenly Father. CHAPTER II PRIESTLY DIGNITY AND HUMAN FRAILTY My son ! Certainly God has exalted you. He has clothed you with heavenly dignity and bestowed a power on you which sur- passes everything. Yet you are an heir to all that frailty which is the lot of all born of woman, for our nature has been wounded by sin. You, too, are a poor, fragile being as long as the exile of your earthly pilgrim- age lasts. You are hard pressed by innu- merable temptations from within and from without. You are in constant danger of losing your eternal salvation. God has willed that you, too, should work out your salvation in weakness and infirmity, and that you should fight like other men, if you would win your crown. Disciple. I know from experience that the priest's life on earth is a continual strug- gle. For my probation I have to pass through the fire and water of temptation, ere Thou wilt bring me out into a refresh- 10 HUMAN FRAILTY 11 ment (Ps. lxv. 12). Teach me my infirm- ity and let me know my enemies, lest by dis- regarding them I fall into sin and death. Master. Most willingly, my son, will I reveal to you your great infirmity and the malice of your enemies. Pray to the Lord, that He may incline His ear to you and en- lighten you with His holy inspirations, lest you become the prey of your enemies; for the fall of a priest is a terrible calamity. Original sin has rendered the light of your understanding dim and has surrounded it with great darkness. Thus you are in con- tinual danger of calling evil good and good evil, putting "darkness for light and light for darkness" (Is. v. 20). This danger is increased all the more be- cause the fires of ungovernable lust blaze up in your own heart, diminishing the light of your intellect, and leading it into errors of judgment more flattering to the passions than consonant with reason. The will receives its light from the un- derstanding and assents to its erroneous judgments the more readily as it has a de- termined bias towards evil. "The imagina- tion and thought of man's heart are prone to evil from his youth" (Gen. viii. 21). 12 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS It may be that you have understood what is good and have approved of it in your mind and taken pleasure in it; yet concupiscence of the flesh prompts and allures you not to follow reason but sensuality, and not "to do the good which you will, but the evil which you will not" (Bom. vii. 19). Moreover, the passions of your heart and your bad inclinations have a powerful ally in this seductive world of ours. It hides a thousand dangers, against which a her- mit is proof, but which the pastor of souls can not escape. He is not allowed to hand over to the wolves the flock which has been entrusted to his care. The world tries to attract you by means of the glittering col- ors of the concupiscence of the eyes, the con- cupiscence of the flesh, and the pride of life. With the song of these sirens it decoys you into its snares. Nay, even in the exercise of the most holy functions it sets traps for you and tries to draw you into its nets. And what is worst of all, your arch foe, Satan, "who goeth about, as a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour" (1 Pet. v. 8) conspires with your great frailty and with the allurements of this wicked world against you. This hellish fiend is filled with infinite HUMAN FRAILTY 13 hatred and fury against all children of Adam. He has no fiercer passion, no am- bition more determined and insistent, than to cast them down into the abysses of dark- ness. Now, try to realize with what savage hunger and craving this hellish hound and his infernal pack unceasingly endeavor to hunt down priests, the shepherds of the flock. Oh, their downfall is the greatest tri- umph of his malice — and their ruin will surely hand over to him innumerable other souls ! This fiend of darkness combines with the fury and strength of a hungry lion the craftiness and malice of a poisonous serpent which knows your weaknesses better than you do. He leaves no device, no trick un- tried. Whenever concupiscence is ever so slightly stirred up in you, the old serpent allures your fancy with the deceitful sweet- ness of dangerous imaginations. He will set your passions ablaze. He will raise wild tumults in your heart. At the same time he will do his utmost to disturb and delude your reason with perilous suggestions, so that in the darkness he causes the will may yield its consent and through concupiscence fall a 14 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS victim to the enjoyment of the poisoned bait. Neither by day nor by night are you safe from his insidious attacks; even in dreams he tries to allure you with impure fancies and imaginations. He makes use of every favorable opportunity, of any danger to which you lay yourself open, of the special circumstances of your life, of the weaknesses of your character ; in short, of anything that is in you or around you, in order to lead you into mortal sin. Therefore, it is most necessary for you to arm yourself bravely against the hosts of enemies who lie hidden in your own heart and who surround you on all sides, lest you fall an easy prey to them. I have seen the sudden fall of the mighty cedars of Lebanon. I have seen columns totter and collapse. They were men whose virtue was thought to be unassailable. "And the stars from heaven fell upon the earth' ' (Apoc. vi. 13). Holy King David fell ; Solomon, the wisest of men, fell ; Peter, the head of the apostles, fell; bishops and other great pillars of the Church of God have fallen ; those who had bravely striven HUMAN FRAILTY 15 for long years have fallen, cheated in the end by the devil. Are you sure, that you, too, will not fall, you who are much weaker than they were i " Wherefore he that thinketh himself to stand, let him take heed lest he fall" (1 Cor. x. 12). "The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh weak. Watch ye therefore, and pray that ye enter not into temptation " (Matt. xxvi. 41). Disciple. "I will confess against myself my injustice" (Ps. xxxi. 5). I will confess before the face of the most just God my great weakness, which, I am sure, is even greater than I can comprehend. There is nothing which brings home to me more the exceeding depths of my misery than the con- templation of my past life; it is one un- broken chain of shortcomings, weaknesses, and failures. How changeable and unreliable the judg- ments of my intellect have proven! What to-day I believed to be true, I thought to be doubtful to-morrow, and gave up as wrong the next day. Often have I held that to be praiseworthy with which I ought to have found fault ; many times I have disapproved 16 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS of what was worthy of praise. I also have learned greatly to mistrust my own judg- ment, whenever it is acting under the influ- ence of passion. Still more clearly I come to know the ex- ceeding frailty of my will. How many good resolutions have I made and not put into practice! How many good actions have I begun and left unfinished ! How often did I intend to do the good but did the bad in- stead ! Oh, this heart of mine, buffeted between good and evil amid the stormy waves of temptation, has only too often listened more willingly to the voice of passion, the world, and Satan, than to the admonitions of my conscience ! May the Lord pardon me, for "I see another law in my members, fight- ing against the law of my mind" {Rom. vii. 23) and I am borne down by the weight of my corrupt nature. Henceforth I will day after day remind myself of my weakness and my enemies. "I will glory in nothing but in my infirmi- ties" (2 Cor. xii. 9). I will avoid the dan- gers of the world as far as my vocation as priest in the world allows it, and I will im- HUMAN FRAILTY 17 plore God's almighty assistance unceasingly. Only in this way shall I be able to preserve intact my soul and my incomparable sacer- dotal dignity. CHAPTER III IMITATION OF CHRIST My son! Listen to the word of eternal life ! There is no other way which leads to perfection save the way of the imitation of Christ. Therefore follow Christ and be- come like unto Him! To this He exhorts you more than all other Christians. "If any man minister to Me, let him follow Me" (John xii. 26). "He that followeth Me, walketh not in darkness, but shall have the light of life" (John viii. 12). If you copy His life in your life and are a true follower of His, you will enlighten the world with the light of your life and loudly give testimony of the true light. Furthermore, the Lord hath said, "I have given you an example that as I have done to you, so you do also" (John xiii. 15). Fol- low it faithfully, however much self-denial it may cost you. And may this thought give you strength, that one day you will be glorified with Christ in that same degree in 18 IMITATION OF CHRIST 19 which you have been like unto Him on earth. Disciple. Gladly would I follow Christ and be wholly like to Him on earth and in heaven. But how am I to accomplish this ! Master. Thus speaketh the Lord: "If any man will come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and fol- low Me" (Luke ix. 23). Many would like to follow Christ, but few seek to follow Him in self-denial and suffering. "But I say to you, no one can follow Me, unless he deny himself and take up his cross in patience." To follow Our Lord means to despise a comfortable and luxurious life, and, on the other hand, to love what crucifies the flesh and the passions. To follow Him means, not to abhor a poor and humble life, a life of self-abnegation and suffering, but, after His example, to bear it patiently, yea, to embrace it with love. Finally, to follow Him means to take upon one's self all the trials, self-denials, and hardships which the life of a priest and pastor of souls brings along with it ; to bear them not only without repugnance but with generosity and love. But do not say in your heart, "This say- ing is hard, and who can hear it?" (John vi. 61). Has not Christ Himself trodden 20 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS the path we have described ? Will not you, a sinful creature, suffer something, after your God and Creator has undergone a thou- sand times more, and that for your sins? Moreover, consider especially that you, His disciple and friend, have a much stricter ob- ligation than others, to be like your divine Master in everything and to follow Him on the way of the cross. The way of the cross, that is self-denial and suffering, is the only way to perfection, and there is no other road. Every man who will not take upon himself his cross is not worthy of the Lord. This is that royal road along wThich the holy Virgin and Mother of God ascended to a summit of per- fection which no other creature has ever reached, nor will ever reach. To follow Jesus, to be a most perfect type of her divine Son, she, the purest lily, had to pass through endless trials and sufferings of body and mind. Has not a sevenfold sword pierced her most innocent heart? Did she not be- come the queen of martyrs at the moment when she was plunged into an ocean of bit- terness, at the foot of the cross % Look, therefore, at the glorious example of the ever immaculate Mother of God, who, IMITATION OF CHRIST 21 free from the guilt and stain of sin, carried during her pilgrimage on earth a heavier cross than all the martyrs and saints to- gether. How, then, can you refuse to take upon yourself a small cross, since, miserable sinner that you are, you have every reason to do penance for your many sins! How much had Christ's most intimate friends, the apostles, to suffer, in order to be His followers: hunger and thirst, heat and cold, inexpressible hardships, continual temptations from within and without, con- tempt, persecution, maltreatment, and fi- nally a felon's death, for their Master's sake! In like manner, all those who have attained to holiness have without any ex- ception trod the thorny way of the cross. Therefore, imprint this deeply upon your heart and let it never be effaced. "No one can follow Christ unless he deny himself and carry his cross willingly." Least of all can a priest hope to escape self-denial and the cross, if he is ready to practise that de- gree of virtue which Our Lord asks of him, and if he tries to fulfil his duty perfectly toward the flock entrusted to him. "You shall receive an hundred-fold and shall possess life everlasting" (Matt. xix. 22 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS 29). Never tire of daily meditating on the poverty of Christ's life, His passion, and death, as narrated by the evangelists; for thereby you will day after day imbue your- self with the spirit of Christ's life and draw from it strength and counsel to mold your life on His. That you may attain this noble end as per- fectly as possible, make the firm resolution not to speak or judge or act, without having first taken counsel within yourself, whether Christ would have thus judged, spoken, or acted. Be ever on your guard that your in- tentions may always be pure and perfect, and aim solely at the honor of God and the salvation of souls. And, finally, patiently bear your cross, which God Himself has put upon your shoulder in order to make you more and more perfect and to augment the store of merit laid up for you in heaven. If thus you follow Christ, His grace will make your heart strong and generous, to walk bravely the royal road of the cross, "as a giant to run the way" (Ps. xviii. 6). It will lead you and the flock committed to your care safely through the miseries of this life, to the enjoyment of unending happiness in the world to come. CHAPTER IV HOLY POVERTY My sox, seriously endeavor to be like unto Jesus, not only in some things, but in every- thing! Your whole apparel and mode of life should make it manifest to all that you are a true follower of Him. He came down from heaven, was born in extreme poverty, lived well nigh destitute of all things, and died in abject poverty. By the poverty of His life He wished to teach you to despise earthly goods, which so many abuse to their eternal ruin. Few there are who follow Christ in per- fect poverty. True, a great many are ex- teriorly poor, but they lack the interior spirit. Others would practise poverty according to their whim and fall short of whole-hearted self-renunciation in all things. The children of this world in their blind- ness have no higher aspiration than to shine before their fellow-creatures and enjoy the 23 24 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS pleasures of this life. They make light of goods eternal, yea, despise them, because their hearts are drawn by the weight of their passions and their eyes are blinded to the light of heaven. But what will be their end? Above all, woe to the priest, who is given to luxury and indulgence! He has been chosen precisely to fight against the vanity and luxury of this world with the twofold weapon of his word and his example. But if the shepherd, wTho ought to be a model and example to his flock, indulges in the pernicious spirit of worldliness, how, then, can it be quelled ? You, my son, do not follow the advice and example of those, who in the folly of their heart make themselves believe that it be- comes only Religious to practise holy pov- erty and to give an example of it to the world. Or are you, as a secular priest, un- der less obligation to strive after perfection than Religious? Or can perfection ever be attained without practising poverty? Cer- tainly you have not the obligations of a vow, nor are you bound to the poverty of a Re- ligious; yet, to become perfect you have to practise poverty in spirit and also exterior HOLY POVERTY 25 poverty as far as it becomes your state of life. You can not even call yourself a disciple of Christ unless you detach your heart from earthly goods ; for thus speaketh the Lord : " Every one of you that does not renounce all that he possesseth, can not be my dis- ciple" (Luke xiv. 33). But you ought not to be his disciple only, but a priest of the Most High and a second Christ. Remember that from the solemn moment of the reception of the sacred tonsure you have chosen the Lord to be your portion. Then you bade farewell to the world and its splendor. "Dominus pars hereditatis meae et colitis mei." "The Lord is my portion,'' not the goods of this world. How can He be entirely yours, if you do not belong ex- clusively to Him and if your heart still hankers after those vain, perishable goods of this earth? Furthermore, do you not day after day proclaim publicly by your clerical attire — which is a symbol of death — that you are dead to the world and its pleasures? Do you not thereby openly confess that you will no more love what it loves, but God alone and His goods ? 26 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS But some may, perhaps, f oolishly believe that they can influence men's minds by a display of pomp and woiidliness, and there- by promote the eternal salvation of their fel- low-men. It may be that some lukewarm Catholics who have false ideas of the voca- tion of a priest are thereby perhaps at- tracted, but rarely will they be led to a bet- ter life. The majority of the faithful, however, esteem nothing higher in their pas- tor than when he leads a poor and humble life after the example of Christ and His saints. Not appearances, not wordly pomp and splendor will secure him a high reputa- tion among his flock, but a rigid adherence to the principles of faith and the dictates of a blameless conscience. To such a priest, the poor and the needy feel themselves drawn ; he understands their misfortunes and miseries ; he knows how to console them, because he himself has first trodden the way of the cross, because he himself leads a life of self-denial and self- imposed poverty. To many a pastor who indulges in luxury and self -enjoyment they may answer his consolations with the words : "Well, if I could live like you, I should cer- tainly be content with my lot." HOLY POVERTY 27 Who were the men that secured such enormous successes in the conversion of in- fidels and of such as had gone astray at times of religous indifference, or of degen- eration of the Catholic people ? Were they those who indulged in the vanity and luxury of this world ? Remember those great bish- ops, Ambrose and Augustine, the blessed Cure d'Ars, and many others! Behold men who had renounced the world and its splendor ! Thus history confirms the judgment of sound reason ! It tells you that vanity has never been conquered by vanity, nor luxury by luxury, but that only humility and con- tempt of earthly goods and, above all, per- fect poverty have overcome the world. Even the children of this world, who cling with every fiber of their heart to earthly possessions and the enjoyment of their goods, are never more impressed than by the sight of a priest who sacrifices not only his health for the welfare of his flock but also everything he possesses. His mere appear- ance is a most powerful sermon for high and low, believers and unbelievers ; his word and example are like a two-edged sword which pierces their hearts. In the confessional it 28 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS is the gentle, alluring call of the good shep- herd, whose heart flows over with love and tenderness, whose comforting words soften the hardest sinner, whose warning voice leads the erring child back again to the right path. From the apostles, down through all the ages to our own day, it was holy poverty which gave the priest the greatest power over the hearts of men, above all over those of sinners. Disciple. I understand, O Lord, how necessary it is for me to follow Christ in holy poverty. Teach me, then, in my daily life, how exactly I must form myself on the great principles which Thou hast made known to me. CHAPTER V RTJLE OF LIFE Master. All praise to you, my son, who are resolved to do violence to yourself in the practice of holy poverty! It will free you from yourself, earthly goods, and the favor of the children of the world. Holy poverty will make you walk the straight way of duty and raise your heart to higher perfection. "He that can take, let him take it" (Matt. xix, 12). Even if you, as a priest, are possessed of money and property, it will not hinder you from imitating Jesus in extreme poverty and imposing upon yourself voluntary pri- vation in many things. With regard to poverty of spirit, however, an unlimited field opens itself to you, and you will have abundant opportunities of reaching the highest degree of perfection. "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven" (Matt. v. 3). The very surroundings of the priest 29 30 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS should betoken the spirit with which he is animated. The light of his virtues should shine forth in everything he is doing, so that those who visit him may be edified and filled with reverence. Every feature of his household must be of such a nature as to sever him from self- indulgence; it ought rather to help him in his striving after virtue, which he will never attain without mortification and self-denial. Therefore, let everything about you be simple and unaffected, far removed from vain ostentation and well suited to the na- ture of your calling. Nothing should be found in your house savoring of luxury and worldliness. In place of those paintings which are unbecoming to the eye of a priest, adorn your house with images of Christ, our Lady, and His saints, and with those inspir- ing scenes of the New and Old Testament, that they may be a source of edification to yourself and those that visit you. From time immemorial Holy Church has ever thought it fitting that bishops, and simple priests alike, should thus adorn their houses. Food and drink are intended to keep the body in good health and to make it fit and capable of enduring hardships. Your diet RULE OF LIFE 31 must never be a weight on you, nor must it ever in the least interfere with any function of that divine work of saving souls. Let your fare be simple, substantial, and whole- some! Worldly people indulge in delica- cies, which enervate them, make them ef- feminate and prone to sensuality. But you, Christ's follower in holy poverty, de- spise all appearance of gluttony and keep your flesh under strict control. Thus you will exercise perfect self-command; the flesh will never be able to overrule your better judgment, nor will it expose you to the danger of losing your soul. "Be sober" (2 Tim. iv, 5). If any man, then it is the priest of the Church of God who at all times must be complete master of his body and mind; for, it is incumbent on him to lead immortal souls to life eternal, a work than which nothing more important can be con- ceived on earth. No less than luxury and prodigality, keep avarice and miserliness from your door! Give liberally to the poor of the fruits of holy poverty which you practise— and no- body will censure your frugality ! Should you be delicate, act according to the advice of a conscientious physician ; but 32 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OP SOULS do not give way to useless whims and fancies, and the promptings of a fastidious taste. With regard to your clothing, follow the general laws of Holy Church and the par- ticular prescriptions of your diocese. They contain the holy will of God, manifested through your superiors. He who makes light of such prudent ecclesiastical rules and disregards them without good reason be- trays great lack of religious gravity. How can he be thoroughly imbued with the cleri- cal spirit who does not take pains to ex- hibit it in his exterior also ? Avoid every form of ostentation; it be- comes no one less than a priest whose very vocation requires him to condemn every kind of vanity. On the other hand, may the love and esteem for the sacerdotal state, to which it is your greatest privilege to be- long, move and impel you to shun every trace of carelessness and unbecomingness in your exterior. Your whole appearance must bear the stamp of true sacerdotal dig- nity in the eyes of the faithful. Priests who are not afraid to appear publicly in negligent attire, are gravely reprehensible; they damage not only their own reputation RULE OF LIFE 33 and their own work for souls, but they ren- der the sacerdotal state contemptible and expose it to ridicule and mockery. My son! "Be not conformed to this world" {Rom. xii. 2). Practise holy pov- erty in the way I have shown you and at every call upon you exhibit liberality ac- cording to your means. "He that hath mercy on the poor, lendeth to the Lord : and He will repay him" (Prov. xix, 17), and be not anxious for the future; for "he that giveth to the poor shall not want" (Prov. xxviii. 27). CHAPTER VI DAILY ROUTINE My son! If you wish to follow Christ and acquire perfection, it is very necessary for you to control yourself at all times, in all places, and on each and every oppor- tunity. Many do not control themselves, but allow themselves to be ruled by their whims and fancies, which often are nothing but prompt- ings of laziness and a kind of greed for dis- sipation. All their actions and omissions are influenced by these fancies, and what is worse, only a few become aware of the fact that they are more and more losing self- control. They become slaves to their own caprice and thus expose themselves and those confided to them to the danger of for- feiting their eternal welfare. As the time of Religious is strictly ap- portioned according to rule, in order that every minute of the day may be profitably employed, so you have a still greater obli- 34 DAILY ROUTINE 35 gation to be complete master of yourself; for you are often left to yourself and you can freely dispose of many hours of the day which you can spend well or ill. Moreover, your vocation as a priest will lead you into the very midst of a frivolous and light- minded world, which will tempt you in many ways to be unfaithful to your principles and to neglect your grave sacerdotal duties. Within a short time you might learn how to control yourself in everything if you were determined to follow a fixed order in your every-day life. This would become a means of safety against the frailty and fickleness of your will, and give you a strong hold against your weaknesses and inconsistencies. You wrould no longer act according to the suggestions of your moods and imaginations, but according to the promptings of duty, utility, and expediency. Now, then, make a firm resolution, and, as far as circumstances allow, appoint a fixed time for rising and going to bed, the chief meals, your spiritual exercises, the preparation for religious instructions and sermons, your private study, the visits to the sick, and your recreation. If in these matters you give way to whims 36 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS and fancies which impel you now to do this and then that, know well that the idleness of your corrupt nature will soon get the better of you. It will induce you to do in everything that which is easier, more com- fortable, or at least more agreeable to you, so that you will neglect many duties toward your own soul and the flock which God has committed to you. This danger will be all the greater as in your state of life you may be to a large extent your own master. But if you are once accustomed to a free and un- restrained life, you will be exposed to all kinds of disorders,; you are on the broad road leading down from the height of per- fection which you may already have ac- quired, and nobody can tell where you will stop. Very soon you will have to accuse your- self of many failings. Your morning prayer, meditation, and preparation for Mass you will make now well, now badly, now too hastily; sometimes you will entirely omit them. How much will the worthy offering of the Most Holy Sacrifice suffer thereby! Your breviary, that divine office, which every priest ought to say with great faith- fulness and devotion, you will recite just DAILY ROUTINE 37 as th§ fit takes you, and then often with carelessness, distractions, and unnecessary haste. No better will it fare with regard to the regularity of your confessions, on which your progress in spiritual life depends to such a great extent. In many things you will find yourself to be unpunctual. In your recreations and favorite occupations you will easily exceed the proper limits and waste that most precious time which should be spent in the cure of immortal souls. You will postpone your preparation for catechetical instruc- tions and sermons to the last minute; then you will hurry through it or even omit it. Important official duties are sure to be per- formed at ill-chosen times and in a hurry. Business which will not admit of delay will be left undone for days to come. Visits to the sick, the pastor's dearest duty, you will pay irregularly, and now and then drop them entirely without any excuse, and thus burden your conscience for the day of judgment. Agreeable visits you will un- duly prolong, and unduly shorten or omit those which are not to your taste, which, however, would be of the greatest profit for the souls concerned. Further, you will put 38 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS off or drop for too long a time visits to this or that neighboring priest who is not so congenial to you, and thus the good feeling which ought to prevail among brother priests will suffer immensely. And then, my son, in the face of all this, beware of being so blind as to palliate your negligence and carelessness with the excuse of want of time ; for, in the life of a priest and in the cure of souls there is nothing which can be considered small and unimpor- tant. If you never acted by caprice, but observed a fixed order in your every-day life, appointing a suitable time for every- thing, you would never have to complain of lack of time. Having first fulfilled all your duties in the best way possible, you would still find ample time for all necessary recrea- tion. May God in His mercy open your eyes in this life, that when brought before His judgment-seat you may not be found want- ing. Disciple. "What Thou say est, O Lord, is true. But it is so extremely difficult for a priest to follow a fixed order in his daily life, in the face of so many obstacles, dis- tractions, and unforeseen occurrences. DAILY ROUTINE 39 Master. It is true, my son, it will cost you great self-denial to faithfully carry into execution a fixed order of life. But in- comparably more difficult is it for a priest without such rules to discharge his manifold duties toward himself and the souls he has to look after. You must do violence to idle- ness and caprice. The Holy Ghost calls this life a warfare. But if a layman has to use violence in order to bear away the kingdom of heaven, how much more must a pastor of souls do the same! For he ought to be a model to his flock, and a higher degree of virtue and self- denial is expected of him than of the simple faithful. "The kingdom of heaven suf- fereth violence and the violent bear it away " (Matt. xi. 12). Therefore overcome your- self manfully, and your struggle will be crowned with success. With the grace of God which you call down upon yourself in prayer, Christian prudence will show you the right way of finding out that order of life which is best suited to your special circumstances and the particular sphere of your professional duties. If with that heavenly wisdom you lay your plans and make allowance as far 40 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS as due consideration for others requires it, you need never be afraid that your rule of life will ever become rigid and unpliable. At least try one particular point for some time and you will marvel at its wonderful efficacy; it will prove a boon for soul and body; you will find that it substantially lightens the heavy burden of your obliga- tions, nay that it becomes a real need and second nature to you. Remember this saying, my son: "He who lives for his Rule, lives for God." There- fore be steadfast, and as far as it depends on you be unflinching in the carrying out of these rules in your daily life. Then you also will be a good shepherd, a model for your brother priests, a source of edification for the inmates of your house, and a glorious ex- ample for your own parishioners. You will possess peace of heart and attain to high per- fection. CHAPTER VII DISPOSAL OF TIME My son, what is the life of man upon earth? "It is a vapor which appeareth for a little while, and afterward shall vanish away" {James iv. 15). It is the passing of a shadow; it is like a ship which traverses the wide ocean; and when it has passed leaves no trace behind it. And vet, accord- ing as this fleeting life has been ill or well- spent, so will be your fate throughout eter- nity. Oh, the folly of those who do not zealously spend this short span of time which is to be the measure of their eternity! Oh, the folly, above all, of the pastors of souls, who waste on trifling dissipations and vain amusements their infinitely precious time, which is to decide the eternity of thousands ! Woe to them, if, through neglect of their most sacred duties, even one of the sheep which have been entrusted to them should be lost! 41 42 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS You, my son, be wise! Be miserly with your time as long as the day lasts! For suddenly will the night break in upon you, in which you can work no more. Indeed, it is meet and just that you spend and consecrate all the hours, yea, each and every minute of the day, to the greater glory of your God. For He has created you out of nothing. He has redeemed you from the slavery of Satan and destined you to eternal happiness, the glories of which by far surpass all human comprehension. Therefore let it be your most earnest en- deavor to make the best use not only of the time during which you fulfil those infinitely responsible duties of your vocation, but also of your leisure hours in which you may no less promote God's honor and glory. To this end observe a fixed order in your daily life wTith great conscientiousness. If you are overburdened with work and if you have hardly breathing time between one duty and another, there will scarcely be question of leisure hours for you. If that be the case, sanctify all your actions, even the most trifling ones, with a good intention, which you do well to renew from time to DISPOSAL OF TIME 43 time. Take special care to divide your time as best you can, allotting to each and every action that amount which corresponds to its importance, so that you may never be obliged to do anything hurriedly or care- lessly. Finally, make all the sacrifices which your holy vocation demands from you with great patience and generosity. If a great deal of free time is at your dis- posal, fear nothing more than sloth, which has already led many a priest into the night of sin and eternal death ; for idleness is the surest and most fertile soil for every kind of temptation. Sloth lays your heart open to the wicked suggestions of the devil and the base allurements of your nature, so prone to sin ; and you will more surely fall a prey to them, for the idle man is usually the first to succumb. Idleness wrought the downfall of David, as it did of Solomon and Samson, who were saints just so long as idleness was a stranger to them. Take this lesson to heart, my son, that the fatal words may never be applied to you, "But he went about idle and fell into sin." Know, then, that nothing turns aside the manifold temptations which befall a 44 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS secular priest more efficaciously than well- regulated occupations and an orderly dis- posal of one's time. Disciple. For this I long, O Lord, and this I desire, to consecrate every moment of my life to Thee and to serve Thee alone. To seek and fulfil Thy most holy will is the delight of my soul. Now help my poor un- derstanding, and instruct me how I may spend my leisure time according to Thy good pleasure. Master. My son! Listen to my counsel and follow my words and you will bear abundant fruit for eternity. If you have conscientiously performed all your duties, then, above all, earnestly set to work to deepen and widen your theological and pas- toral studies. "For the lips of the priest shall keep knowledge, and they shall seek the law at his mouth ; because he is the an- gel of the Lord of hosts" (Malach. ii. 7). Next, you may in a becoming manner oc- cupy yourself with some secular branch of study which is to your taste, such as natural science, or history, or as King David did, with music. This will banish idleness, en- large your mental horizon, and, besides, furnish you with suitable matter for con- DISPOSAL OF TIME 45 versing with educated laymen, who not unfrequently upbraid the clergy with preju- dice and narrowness of view. If God has endowed you with some special gift, where- with to further the interests of the Church and the salvation of souls, use it to its full- est advantage; for you will one day have to give an account of its use. Thus many a zealous priest has defended Holy Church with the two-edged sword of speech and writing, put to shame the malice of her embittered enemies, and turned their own weapons against themselves. Others have gained great renown as prominent scholars in the pursuit of various studies. Others, again, have glorified the Spouse of Christ, Holy Church, by painting and sculp- ture, and left behind to wondering poster- ity magnificent monuments, the fruit of their toil and labor. By means of sound popular writings, others have led thousands and thousands to a truly Christian life. Im- itate their bright and illustrious example to the best of your power, so that one day you may be found worthy to be united to this glorious band in heaven. Moreover, it would be most pleasing in the sight of God if you employed part of 46 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS your leisure time in taking charge of well- talented boys of good Catholic families, of the poorer class, in order to prepare them for higher studies. Another highly meri- torious work would be to contribute to Cath- olic periodicals and the Catholic press gen- erally, which in our days has to cope with a task of paramount importance ; for it is as- saulted from all sides by the emissaries of error, falsehood, and malice. In this way you will also help toward silencing that re- proach, over and over again levelled against the Church by her enemies — and unhappily by many of her disloyal sons — that she is not competent to deal with the scientific re- quirements of the age. As Christ's devoted follower in holy pov- erty, you ought to care little, whether or no you will obtain the due reward and acknowl- edgment for your labor, but rather look at the magnificent fruits which ensue there- from. Besides Christ pledges His royal word, that your troubles and endeavors shall be rewarded a thousandfold. Finally, part of your leisure time you may also fittingly spend in practising some special devotions, in answering letters, or in any other occupation which will promote DISPOSAL OP TIME 47 your bodily and mental well-being. But take care that exercise and recreation should not outweigh your necessary mental pur- suits. Whenever possible, spend your free time with God in nature. Open mind and heart to the gentle yet inspiring voice which God's handiworks, animate and inanimate, whis- per into your ears. Refresh yourself with the sight of the lovely flowers and spreading trees, the birds of the air and the animals in field and for- est, creatures which God in His goodness has created for the pleasure and comfort of man. In the roll of the thunder and the flash of the lightning, amid the howling of the storm, in the height of the mountain and the depth of the sea, in the cold of the north and the glow of the south — in all this ad- mire and adore the power of the out- stretched hand of God Almighty ! Let your eyes rest on those innumerable heavenly bodies which trace out their orbits according to eternal laws, and marvel at the astound- ing harmony and design, in the workings of nature. There you will come face to face with God's omnipotence, wisdom, bounty, love, and sanctity. 48 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS The more you penetrate into this mys- terious workshop and immerse yourself in the meditation of God's immense creation, the more will you humble yourself in His all-powerful hands, the more will you be en- raptured with the highest praise of His di- vine majesty, and cry out from the depth of your humility, "How great are Thy works, O Lord" (Ps. ciii. 24). "Tu solas Do- minus, Tu solus Altissinius." With such a walk, so refreshing for body and soul, you can easily combine a visit to a brother priest, to some sick person, or to a neighboring church, thus combining the useful with the agreeable. But with all these good and useful occu- pations, do not forget, my son, that the priest's first and most solemn duty lies in striving with all his powers after the salva- tion of his own soul and the souls of those that have been entrusted to him. What would it profit him on the great day of reck- oning, if he has done splendid work in other directions and gained high reputation be- fore men, but has neglected his own soul and the eternal welfare of his flock? Prefer, then, what is necessary to what is useful, and what is useful to what is agree- DISPOSAL OF TIME 49 able. Attend to everything within reason- able limits and according to its importance. Then you may hope to be found worthy one day to be called the faithful servant who to the five talents given him has added another five. CHAPTER VIII CARE OF HEALTH My son ! Always take reasonable care of your health together with proper precau- tions for its maintenance ! Do not imagine that you act perfectly by neglecting it alto- gether. How many priests have all too soon suffered the loss of their vigor and strength, because they did not pay proper heed to their health and by unduly overtax- ing themselves have utterly ruined it. Disciple. What Thou sayest, O Lord, is true. But are not these zealous men to be excused by reason of the excess of their work which no one can escape without neg- lect of duty? Teach me, then, how I must take care of and preserve my health in har- mony with the principles of perfection. Master. With regard to excess of work, my son, remember that with the majority of priests this occurs on certain days and sea- sons only. There will come quiet seasons 50 CARE OF HEALTH 51 and days of repose, during which a secular priest may most conveniently look after his health and recruit his former strength. Un- doubtedly, where there is great scarcity of priests, or where extraordinary circum- stances prevail, it may happen that he can think little of his health ; indeed it may even be that he will sooner or later break down. But these are the exceptions. Yet the number of those who before their time and through their own fault have be- come partly or entirely unfit for work is by no means insignificant; for, although they knew that they wrere of a weak constitution, they did not take proper care of themselves. Happy those, who from their very youth have allowed themselves to be guided by Christian prudence with regard to the state of their health ! Many have weakened their vigor and power of resistance for life by excess while young, either in their studies or in sports and amusements. In this way they have acted against the intentions of God Almighty and made the Church forfeit the claims she had on their full service. Only with great difficulty, and that inter- mittently, have they been able to do justice 52 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OP SOULS to the heavy obligations of their vocation. They have been punished in that in which they had sinned. Therefore, my son, follow the general rules of health as faithfully as possible. Let your rooms be well-aired and well-lighted. And then keep in mind that besides a well- approved way of living, order, regularity, and moderation in everything, and last but not least, the blessing of a good conscience, are the most powerful factors in the mainte- nance of your health. Imitate the regulars in this respect. They are able to do such an amount of work because their time is so admirably portioned out. Their rule of life in general and their order of the day in particular are laid out, as far as their professional work permits, according to the general rules of health. Their order and regularity in everything, especially in rising and retiring, their sim- ple and wholesome fare, the care that is taken that studies, bodily work, and recrea- tion follow in due course, that suitable re- laxation after the chief meals and the fixed amount for sleep — all these things are of the greatest importance in order to keep good health. CARE OF HEALTH 53 Whenever you are hard pressed with work, distribute it evenly over your work- ing hours, distinguish well between the im- portant and the unimportant, practise rea- sonable moderation, and you will get through an enormous amount of work with- out impairing your health. No less than the general rules of health, conscientiously observe the special instruc- tions which are given to priests in their Pas- toral Medicine for the various branches of their profession. Do not make light of them, vainly presuming that you are proof against everything. Before long you may have to pay dearly for your want of care and vigilance. If you are weak and delicate, take the necessary precautions and make use of the means recommended by good physicians before it is too late. As to relaxation and amusement, remem- ber that not everything is as conducive to health as it is sometimes said to be. What is excellent for your neighbor, may prove harmful to you. There are especially two evils against which I should like to put you on your guard, with all the sincerity and love of a father's heart: frequent shortening of your 54 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OP SOULS sleep and excess in the use of spirits. Sec- ular priests, directors of clubs and guilds, who have to attend late meetings or evening entertainments, will most certainly be ex- posed to these temptations. Keep this con- stantly before your mind, that thereby you may not only render more difficult, nay, per- haps impossible, the conscientious fulfill- ment of your duties, but that you may not also ruin your health. You will be able to avoid the first of these evils by making it a firm rule to rise and retire at a fixed hour. When attending club meetings or other social gatherings, ap- point beforehand a certain hour for leaving, and observe it persistently, making allow- ance, of course, for extraordinary circum- stances. You may combat the second evil successfully if you observe strict moderation day by day and under no circumstances al- low yourself to overstep certain fixed limits. If you follow these instructions, you need never be afraid of falling short of the re- quirements of true pastoral zeal. You will not only be enabled to stand a greater strain in body and mind, but your energy and ca- pability for mastering work will be greatly increased. CARE OF HEALTH 55 On the other hand, it would be as blame- worthy to be over-nice and scrupulous in the care of your health as it would be to be neg- ligent. Such a man will always be inclined to give preference to mere trifles, instead of resolutely fulfilling the most sacred du- ties of his vocation. He is a burden to him- self and those around him. Observe moder- ation in all things ; for the golden mean is always the best and safest road. Accommodate yourself as much as possi- ble to the special circumstances of the place, your parishioners, and domestic life. Should they tax your health and strength somewhat heavily, then call to mind that people in the world have to put up with as many and perhaps greater trials and wor- ries which are by no means conducive to health. They know that certain trials and hardships, being intimately connected with their daily work and profession, can not be avoided. Since, however, the most sacred and most responsible office is entrusted to you, viz., to lead immortal souls to life eternal, you must be ready to make greater sacrifices than people of the world. Should the salvation of even one of your flock demand 56 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS it, you must be ready to sacrifice your strength and health, yea even your life. But this does not militate against the sin- cere admonitions I have given you, to care for and preserve your health as much as lies in your power. , PART II 57 CHAPTER I THE CHOICE OF A HOUSEKEEPER My son! Consider the choice of your housekeeper as a matter of paramount im- portance, which can not be thought over too carefully. Experience shows that the house- keeper may in many ways be the cause of much good as well as the source of great evil. It is, therefore, no matter of indiffer- ence what kind of person you admit into the service of the presbytery. She must be pos- sessed of certain definite qualifications. Not without good reason, God in His in- finite wisdom chose St. Joseph to be the bridegroom of our blessed Lady. It was his virtues which made him worthy of so singularly exalted a position in preference to so many others. Because Mary was holy, God appointed Joseph to be her companion and protector; and Joseph was a just man. In like manner, the person who has the honor of living under the same roof with, and of looking after the household affairs 60 RULES FOR TPIE PASTOR OF SOULS of a priest of the Most High, ought to be a model of a virtuous and God-fearing life. This you will understand all the better, my son, when you consider that God and the world strictly demand from you, that you as a priest lead the life of an angel in the flesh ; you are expected to be a bright example of every virtue, and, together with your house- hold, to be a source of edification to the faithful. But how will you be able to ac- complish all this, if your housekeeper be- trays dispositions and qualities which will greatly endanger and even bring to naught all your worthy aspirations ? Is it not true, that in the course of time every man will be influenced by the perverse qualities of his surroundings ? Now can we expect that the priest, merely in virtue of his priesthood, will remain proof against the bad influences of those around him? Or does this wicked, suspicious world apply to the priest and his household this saying only, "With the holy, thou wilt be holy" (Ps. xvii. 26) ? Does it not also say, "With the perverse thou wilt be perverted" (P*. xvii. 27) ? Disciple. I clearly see that not every person is qualified for looking after the management of my household. Before I CHOICE OF A HOUSEKEEPER 61 make my choice, I must study God's holy will. Therefore teach me how I may best accomplish this important work. Master. Take my advice and you will never repent of it, for the Lord will be with you. If you wish to arrange your house- hold affairs for the profit of your soul, and to please God Almighty, it is not sufficient that the person you intend to choose should fully understand how to manage, and pos- sess health and strength enough for the ful- fillment of her duties. This goes without saying, and it is all the more true, if other priests live with you in the same house. For they rightly claim to be looked after in a way suitable to their station. But, above all, let it be your most earnest endeavor to choose a person who is virtuous; for the aims of a priest are eternal and far beyond the thoughts of the children of this world. Theref ore let him view all his doings in the light of eternity. From the very outset you must consider any person unfit, even if it be mother or sis- ter, who betrays qualities which would en- danger your own striving after perfection or hinder greater good in the cure of souls. Therefore, have your eyes open and consider 62 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS the matter chiefly under that twofold as- pect. You will soon find who will suit you and who will not. Conscientiously observe the ecclesiastical prescriptions which enjoin upon the priest the acceptance either of relations or of per- sons whose age and virtue render them above suspicion. Holy Church has laid down these rules for you with a mother's love and care, in order to assist your easily-misguided judgment and to show you in what direction your real good lies. These precepts are the outcome of the experience of hundreds of years. If you are careless in their observ- ance, you act against God's holy will; you will have no claim to the special assistance of His manifold graces, and you will find yourself punished in the very thing in which you will have sinned. This applies especially to those who give preference to youth rather than to virtue, to comeliness rather than gravity, to cheer- fulness rather than modesty and lowliness of heart, to human wisdom, savoring of the spirit of this world, rather than to true Christian prudence from above. In this case feeling overpowers one's better judg- ment. What good can you expect when the CHOICE OF A HOUSEKEEPER 63 beginning is founded rather in the flesh than in the spirit. "He that loveth danger shall perish in it" (Ecclus. iii, 27). Disciple. Very grave are Thy words, O Lord I Holy fear penetrates my heart. I am "a reed shaken with the wind" (Matt. xi. 7). "Send forth thy light and thy truth" (Ps. xlii. 3) to dispel the darkness of my ignorance. But Thou, O Lord, con- tinue to teach me how I am to act. CHAPTER II THE UNSUITABLE HOUSEKEEPER Your humility, my son, is pleasing in my sight and makes your heart ready for re- ceiving the words of truth. Therefore I take pleasure in speaking to you and in- structing you according to your desire. Needless to say, it can not be the will of God that you should select a person who does not enjoy good repute among men and whose name is open even slightly to the as- persions of detractors. Light-minded and frivolous persons, and those unduly addicted to dress; the extravagant and the vain; those who are not exemplary in the recep- tion of the sacraments and attendance at church — these should likewise be excluded from the precincts of the presbytery. Further, beware of persons who will not content themselves with looking after your household affairs, but who are likely to med- dle with the parish; such as those who shrink from a retired life, and go gossiping 64 THE UNSUITABLE HOUSEKEEPER 65 and talebearing from house to house. The action of such persons may place the priest in the most awkward situation ; for they dis- close those things which ought to be kept secret, and what is worse still, they are often wrongly informed by malicious tongues. Do not forget that there are always people whose constant aim is to bias the parish priest against certain persons, families, or clubs, and set the different parties against one another. Owing to idle gossipers and talebearers many a priest has done bitter injustice to some of his parishioners, found himself involved in party strifes, lost the confidence of many, and made his owti life a heavy burden to himself. Heaven preserve you from a housekeeper who is given to lying, slander, and calumny ! What untold harm have such persons done with their slanderous tongues ! How often have they unwittingly been doing the devil's work, that spirit of unspeakable malice! They have robbed pastors of their reputa- tion, they have sown discord among brother priests, they have conjured up hateful con- tentions in parishes and caused irreconcila- ble enmities to spring up ; the shepherd has become an object of ridicule to his flock, and 66 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS numbers of Christians have become es- tranged from their religion. Beware, also, of persons of a domineering spirit. It is quite consonant with their character to arrogate to themselves rights to which they have no claim. Their self- willed and overbearing behavior will be a scandal to the parishioners, who will natu- rally take a dislike to visiting their pastor. The assistant priests will seriously complain of the haughty treatment and deception to which they are subjected, and of the unau- thorized interference in their own duties and offices. The bonds of peace and harmony between the pastor and his curates are thus only too easily loosened, if not entirely broken. Prodigal housekeepers are liable to bring upon a parish priest manifold troubles, pe- cuniary embarrassments, debts, and things which are worse than these. Housekeepers who are miserly give your coadjutors constant cause for complaint with regard to food, lodging, and general arrangements. They will hinder many works of mercy and occasion much ill will among the people, who dislike nothing more in their pastor than seeing that he lends a THE UNSUITABLE HOUSEKEEPER 67 deaf ear to the poor and needy. Such per- sons discredit the presbytery with the peo- ple and are often the cause of its being shunned by neighboring priests. Do not admit into your service a person of means who comes under the pretext of offering you a helping hand, if need be. Very few priests get on well with well-to-do people of this class; only the blind do not see the golden chains which rob them of their independence. Relations of a quarrelsome disposition who in all likelihood can not live in peace with you either, and are possessed of other sinister qualities, may be supported and helped on in life by you, as far as your means go and prudence suggests; but keep them out of the presbytery, if you want to enjoy peace of soul within your home. Finally, proceed with great caution and discretion, if there be question of choosing a person from a family with which you are more intimately acquainted. She will ex- pect to be treated with special consideration, and if you find her unfit, there will be greater difficulty in dismissing her than a stranger. How happy are you, if you have chosen 68 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS a person in whose heart there is no guile, whose only ambition is virtue and retire- ment, whose whole mind is set on looking after the management of your household with the greatest diligence. Happy you, if you have found one who is respectful to- ward priests, and gentle and affable in deal- ing with others ; whose heart is full of com- miseration for the needy and the poor. She will be a source of edification to you and all who are entrusted to your care. Disciple. Yes, Master! But how can I find such a one? Master. Conscientiously follow the in- structions I have given you. Pray for light. Use every means to select the most suitable person. Balance equally her mer- its and faults. Then make your choice, guided by the light of eternity, inspired with the purest intentions, and assisted by the helpful grace of God Almighty. CHAPTER III MOTHER AND SISTER AS HOUSEKEEPER Disciple. Is it not better, O Lord, to have mother or sister in the presbytery rather than a stranger ? Master. It is well, my son, to consider this question attentively, so that you may not only make a suitable choice, but one most profitable. It is quite in accordance with the inten- tions of our holy Mother the Church that priests should take a relation, especially a pious mother or God-fearing sister, into their house. She is chiefly guided by the conviction, that thereby the safety of your sacerdotal life is best guaranteed and that you are guarded against many temptations and dangers which you might incur if a stranger were to look after you. You are likewise protected from the allurements and slanderous talk of this wicked world. Who could have your truly priestly dig- nity, your good reputation, and blameless- 69 70 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OP SOULS ness in every respect more at heart than a good mother or a virtuous sister $ Im- pelled by genuine love, they guard your path, your coming and your going. By day and by night they surround you with loving care, so that the tempter may not approach you, neither openly nor covertly. This, my son, is an immense gain ! The spirit that animates you, the good that dwells in you, the frailty that clings to you, whatever benefits or harms you — noth- ing is hidden from them. How many an unhappy priest would never have gone astray if a good mother or a loving sister, like a second guardian angel, had stood by his side! But there are still other advantages. If mother or sister lives with you, the whole atmosphere of the presbytery will lose a good deal of its roughness, the natural con- sequence of a lonely life. They will com- pensate for the want of family life, as far as this is possible in your circumstances, and change a dreary presbytery into a charming and congenial home. In their midst you may move freely and without restraint, and spend many a pleasant hour without fear MOTHER AND SISTER 71 that this suspicious world may legitimately take scandal. On the other hand, if you have a stranger in the house, your life will run on quite dif- ferent lines. You will be obliged to keep a constant check upon yourself lest you should imperil your priestly dignity or give scandal to the children of this world. Mother and sister take the keenest inter- est in your welfare, your cares, and joys. Your happiness they make their own, and writh your suffering they are equally con- cerned. They read it in your eyes, when silent sorrow afflicts your heart, and it is so natural and easy to them to console and en- courage you in the various troubles and trials of your vocation. A mother's pru- dent counsel will find easy access to your heart; her sweet persuasion will save you from many a hasty step, and her gentle en- couragement will stimulate you to renewed zeal and fervor. But with a stranger confi- dences will usually betoken evil and breed danger. Finally, who could replace a mother or a sister when you are struck down by serious sickness ? As a priest you will feel it a two- 72 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS fold trial and burden if a stranger nurses you, stays up with you, and assists you in your utter helplessness. Consider all this, my son, having before your eyes no less your eternal than your temporal welfare, and you will find that as a rule you are best off when your pious mother or good sister looks after your house- hold. Then in truth may you be envied; for God has bestowed on you a favor for which you can never be sufficiently thankf uL CHAPTER IV THE PASTOR AND THE HOUSEKEEPER Disciple. After I have listened to Thy instruction, O Lord, concerning the choice of a suitable housekeeper, there arises an- other question, no less important and diffi- cult, viz., how I am to deal with her in a way best suited for my own welfare and most pleasing to Thee. Master. A good and well-justified re- quest is this, my son; for "if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?" (1 Tim. iii. 5) . Your course of action will vary ac- cording as your housekeeper is your mother or sister or a mere stranger. Disciple. Master, it is well known to Thee how limited my understanding is. In- struct me, then, and teach me what to do, and what not to do, according to Thy holy will and the profit of my soul. Master. Eemember, my son, that the eyes of all are upon you; for "thou art a priest' ' 74 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS (Ps. cix. 4). Therefore your dealings with the housekeeper must be such as to be in complete harmony with your exalted dig- nity ; there must be nothing which would be inconsistent with it, compromise it, or cast a slur upon it. Moreover, it is God's holy will that you be a model to your household as well as to your congregation. Take great care, then, that your housekeeper may de- rive edification from all she sees and ob- serves. "Let all things be done to edifica- tion" (1 Cor. xiv. 26). It is your duty to strive after sanctity in a higher degree than laymen are bound to do ; for this rea- son you are obliged to shape all your deal- ings with people in such a way as not to be a hindrance to their progress in virtue, but a powerful aid and stimulus. Your whole behavior must manifest that particular de- gree of virtue which a priest is supposed and expected to practise. These general outlines are to be followed in your dealings with a stranger as well as with relatives. Should it be necessary to entrust to a stranger the charge of your housekeeping, see that her salary is previously agreed upon and punctually paid. If you should be in PASTOR AND HOUSEKEEPER 75 difficulties, I advise you to make somebody else rather than your housekeeper your creditor. Priests who are careless in pay- ing wages ought to remember that thereby they allow themselves to be drawn into an unbecoming condition of dependency. Their hands will be tied as regards dismissal and they will be obliged to hold their peace in the face of many abuses and misdoings. Further, let no one ever persuade you to keep and invest the salary of your house- keeper, paying her interest on the capital, or in any other way to manage her money affairs. You may, however, assist her with good advice in this matter, if it seems ad- vantageous. Likewise, I would most sin- cerely caution you against providing for her only in your will, in recompense for all the services rendered to you. Apart from the possibility that you may die intestate, or that the legal value of your will may be called in question, it makes a very unfa- vorable impression upon the faithful if a parish priest appoints his housekeeper chief legatee. My son, be always mindful of the dignity of your vocation and never allow yourself to go so far as to descend to the level of 76 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OP SOULS your subordinates, to be on terms of famil- iarity with them, to be — so to speak — one of them. Watch how people of high rank in the world know well how to be affable and condescending, but how they, as soon as cer- tain limits have been touched, guard them- selves by means of noble reserve and becom- ing gravity. Are you not, as a priest, a person of noble rank, in comparison with your inferiors? Let a stranger always know that she is your servant and subordinate ; otherwise the temptation wall be great to assume to her- self rights to which she is not entitled. It is advisable, however, not to make her feel her dependency and inferior position in ev- erything; yet you must take pains that her whole behavior toward you bears the stamp of true subordination. Insist with firmness on restricting her care to the conscientious discharge of her duties and the steady prog- ress of her soul. But in her own sphere leave her as free a hand as possible. In your dealings with her try to show calm, unaffected kindness, combined with benevolent consideration, always remember- ing that her station is one full of trials and PASTOR AND HOUSEKEEPER 77 sacrifices. See that nothing is wanting with regard to board and lodging. Never be harsh, angry, loud, ill-tempered, petty, or mean. Overlook small faults, and whenever occasion offers do not stint judicious praise. If there is reason for complaint, always ex- amine first whether or not there has been a fault on your part as well, and then only act, without being overhasty and according to the maxims of virtue and Christian pru- dence. Be not over-familiar or talkative, but re- served and discreet. Guard against the least manifestation of softness or tender- ness, which has its root in sensuality. This would not only destroy the high esteem peo- ple ought to have of you, but might easily be the presage of a fatal end. Let it sink deep into your mind, my son, that you are no more safe from the evil promptings of sen- suality than other mortals, and as a priest you are obliged to keep an even stricter guard over yourself, because with you much more is at stake. You must realize and bring home to yourself, that neither the sil- very locks of venerable age nor the increas- ing weight of bodily infirmities will make 78 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS you proof against the arrows of sensuality. Were not great saints, yea even the Apostle of the Gentiles, St. Paul, tormented by the sting of the flesh? For this reason exercise a discreet reserve ; most carefully avoid assisting your house- keeper in female handiwork or in other household work; never show yourself in want of those hundred trifling services which only serve to gratify your self-indul- gence. Be cautious, lest your speech savor of sensuality. "He that hath no guard on his speech shall meet with evils" (Prov. xiii. 3). Enter into a firm alliance with your eyes ; for the face of a woman may lead you astray. Fence in your ears with thorns, lest death find an entrance there and bring you to ruin. When a priest has once fallen, then " abyss calleth to abyss." Furthermore, guard against everything which might give rise to evil suspicion among the faithful and might lead them to conclude that you were too familiar and had a too intimate relationship with your housekeeper, "that he who is on the contrary part may be afraid, having no evil to say of us" (Titus ii, 8) . Make it a firm rule never to enter the rooms allotted to her special PASTOR AND HOUSEKEEPER 79 use ; and never to allow her to stay in your own study. Know well, also, that a priest may cause scandalous talk if he suffers his housekeeper to do exactly what she likes in the management of the house and in her dealings with the parishioners; if he goes out driving with her; if he permits her to accompany him on journeys, and so forth. Take notice, also, of the fact that many a priest has become the object of evil talk, because his housekeeper frequently received her lady friends in the presbytery. Do not speak with her about parochial af- fairs and consider it not in keeping with your dignity to ask her advice in these mat- ters. Never listen to talebearing on her part; for thereby only discord and enmity are roused in the congregation; to prevent this efficaciously, do not allow her to pay or receive frequent visits. Have it understood that your servants do not associate indiscriminately with others, especially in your absence, and, generally speaking, interdict any acquaintance which might be dangerous or give rise to suspicion. See that their dress and whole carriage be simple and modest, neither ostentatious nor arrogant, lest your hearers upbraid in the 80 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS people of your own house what you con- demn from the pulpit. "With regard to the spiritual welfare of your housekeeper, do your best to make it possible for her to go to confession to a conscientious neighboring priest. I earn- estly dissuade you from taking her spirit- ual guidance into your own hands ; for you will always find it difficult to be entirely frank and candid ; yea, there is even a possi- bility of the seal being broken and of sacri- legious confessions being made. Moreover, you should beware of anything which might lead to over-familiarity and too close an in- timacy, prejudicial to your own spirit- ual life. That is what I most sincerely recommend to you, my son, in this matter. If you were a saint, oh, how well would you know in what manner to arrange your whole way of acting! With what reverence and esteem would men look up to you! Disciple. Thou showest Thyself so kind and patient, O Lord, in teaching me. Oh, that these instructions might effect a thor- ough reformation of my interior as well as my exterior! Only one thing, O Master, explain to me and I am satisfied. Am I to PASTOR AND HOUSEKEEPER 81 keep within the same narrow bounds with my mother and sister as with a stranger, and must I insist that they also care for nothing beyond the faithful management of my house ? Master. The principles which ought to guide your dealings with your housekeeper apply, as far as they are derived from your dignity as a priest, to each and every per- son ; therefore also to your mother and sis- ter. But, on the other hand, it is equally clear that a different relationship requires a different behavior on your part. In the family circle, you must always behave like a good son toward your mother and like a loving brother toward your sister. As a son you can not and you will never demand that your mother consider herself subordi- nate to you ; yet on the other hand, she must look up to you and treat you as a priest of the Most High and be subject to you in all that concerns your office as a priest and pas- tor of souls. There may, however, be good reasons, and under certain circumstances it may be very profitable, to lend a benevolent ear to timely counsel in affairs which are in the mouths of all. Your own judgment and your knowledge of your relations' education 82 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS and prudence will tell you how far you can rely on them. Weigh the reasons which they adduce and then make your resolutions according to your own insight into the mat- ter. But in things appertaining to your priestly office deem it not in keeping with your dignity to be governed and ruled by your mother and sister. To conclude, take the following words to heart ! If you have taken your parents into your house, keep in mind that you have done so out of your own free choice. But, then, bear the weaknesses of their age and charac- ter with patience, meekness, and generosity. God has willed that their imperfections be the occasion for you to practise self- denial and thus attain to high perfection. Keep in loving remembrance all the sacri- fices which your parents have made on your behalf, and the patience with which they have borne the manifold weaknesses of your youth and perhaps the still greater short- comings of your present life. Fear the ter- rible judgments of God, and be never car- ried away by a fit of passion, so as to be hard or harsh on your old parents and to make the evening of their life a burden to them. "Be thou ashamed, O Sid on, speaketh the PASTOR AND HOUSEKEEPER 83 sea" (Is. xxiii. 4). Yes, blush with shame, priest of God the Most High, if you treat your parents coldly and gruffly and then preach to the faithful, " Honor thy father and thy mother . . . that it may be well with thee and thou mayest be long-lived upon earth" (Eph. vi. 2, 3). CHAPTER V THE CURATES AND THE HOUSEKEEPER Disciple. I understand full well, O Master, what Thou hast said about the pas- tor's dealings with the housekeeper holds good also to a large extent with regard to curates, because they are priests as well. Only one doubt graciously deign to solve. How am I to act as curate, if the servants of the house give me reason to complain? Some of them are of a haughty character, heedless and inconsiderate; others seek their own will in everything ; others again are im- pertinent, make unbecoming remarks, and the like. Master. My son ! Even if there be many such complaints and they be well founded, take my counsel and earnestly strive to live in peace with all the inmates of the house. This, however, you will not achieve unless you are ready to overlook many things and even make great sacrifices. First of all, re- member that those with whom you live may 84 CURATES AND HOUSEKEEPER 85 at times have good reasons to find fault with you also. "For in many things we all of- fend" {James iii. 2). Therefore you will do well to weigh St. Paul's words in your heart in dealing with your fellow-men: "Bear ye one another's burden, and so you shall fulfil the law of Christ" {Gal. vi. 2). Now if you think that your complaints are well-grounded, first examine your own conscience as to whether unkind treatment, too little consideration, or excessive demands on your part are perhaps the cause of the trouble. Ask yourself whether you have maintained that degree of reserve which be- comes a priest, or whether you have given way even to seeming levity in presence of your inferiors, or whether you have indulged in long, useless talks without carefully weighing your words. Many a priest has suffered great loss of esteem and reverence by this ill-understood condescension to those around him. Consider all this very carefully. If you then think it necessary to reprimand the of- fender, first try gentleness. Let your words be land and well-considered ; take a strictly objective view of the matter, and endeavor to give utterance to it without a sign of irri- 86 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS tation. It would be a grave mistake on your part to act at the first rising of anger ; you might easily overlook an important cir- cumstance and so wrong a person most grievously. Never allow your temper to carry you so far as to make you use injuri- ous and spiteful expressions. For such, when uttered by a priest, cause redoubled pain and are felt all the more keenly. Apa- thy, bitterness of heart, enmity, loss of es- teem and reverence are but the natural con- sequences of this conduct. If kind words have been to no purpose, you had best refer the matter to the pastor, yet with the strictest adherence to truth and justice ; if necessary, you may without scru- ple repeat your request that a stop be put to these grievances. But bear in mind that sometimes circum- stances may be of such a nature, that all your efforts are of little or no avail. The servants may be lacking in education or in the skill necessary for household manage- ment ; they may have certain besetting faults or other peculiarities most annoying and un- pleasant to you. Even your pastor may possibly not possess the necessary amount of common-sense to appreciate your grievance, CURATES AND HOUSEKEEPER 87 especially if relations of his are in ques- tion. Then there remains nothing to be done but to resign yourself to the existing state of things and to bear it with humility and patience. If, however, the situation should prove more trying than you can stand you are free to put the whole matter before your bishop. Make it a point to show special deference and consideration toward the old parents of your pastor. Do not weigh their words too minutely, and accustom yourself to overlook their ordinary shortcomings. " Eise up be- fore the hoary head and honor the person of the aged man" (Lev. xix. 32). My son! Thus act Christ's true follow- ers, with great patience and meekness, with- out passion and spite. Their dealings with others, even their way of giving utterance to complaints, will betoken their perfection and virtue. For our way of acting out- wardly corresponds to the degree of sanc- tity which is within us. CHAPTER VI THE PASTOR AND THE CURATES My son! The grace of the Holy Ghost be with you, that you may seek nothing but to know and fulfil God's holy will; for, in this, and in this alone, consists true perfec- tion. If there are assistant priests with you, pray fervently to the Lord to send His light from on high, which will illuminate your understanding more brightly than all hu- man wisdom and knowledge could do. May He give you insight and strength to regu- late your dealings in this respect according to the principles of virtue and Christian prudence especially. This I recommend to you all the more, as a wrong way of acting may greatly hinder your progress in virtue, seriously disturb the peaceful harmony of the presbytery, and easily give scandal to the faithful; for they naturally look up to the presbytery as to a model and pattern for their own home. 88 THE PASTOR AND THE CURATES 89 Listen, then, attentively to the instruc- tions I am going to give you concerning your dealings with your curates, and faith- fully keep my words in your heart. Not all men are of the same nature and disposition, but one has this character, an- other that; and in dealing with different people, if you wish to live in peace with them, you must make allowance accordingly. Therefore deem it a matter of great pru- dence and a thing worth striving after to treat every man according to his individual disposition and character. Believe me, that by so doing you will be spared many vexa- tions and annoyances, and quietly avoid numberless difficulties. Follow this advice especially in your dealings with your cu- rates, and constantly aim at the following two points, viz., to preserve your authority as superior and to treat your curates as brethren; for, so it is becoming in the Lord. As parish priest you are their superior and in what relates to the presbytery and parish affairs you enjoy chartered rights which your curates are bound to acknowl- edge and consider sacred. To renounce any of them without good reasons would not be virtue, but weakness. 90 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS On the other hand, remember that your curates possess the same incomparable priestly dignity as you and that they are your brethren also. It is, therefore, the will of God Almighty that you treat them with a brother's sincere love, that you bear with them in that spirit of supernatural charity which Jesus displayed to His dis- ciples, and that you exercise your authority as superior with that gentleness which is unknown to those who wield worldly power. Disciple. I acknowledge the truth of Thy teaching, O Lord, and the great value of Thy admonitions. I desire now to learn from Thy mouth how I may best preserve my au- thority as superior and at the same time ex- hibit a brother's love toward my assistant priests, so that my whole conduct may be pleasing to Thee, O Lord ! Master. My son! You will preserve your authority best in the following way: Show by your whole life that you are a true follower of Jesus Christ ; be a model to your curates in word and action and every kind of virtue ; treat them with becoming esteem and reverence; practise complete self-con- trol in conversing with them; be a perfect gentleman in all those details that go to THE PASTOR AND THE CURATES 91 make up good manners ; at all times observe a kind of noble reserve, for this becomes a superior. Brotherly love must first of all show itself in the genuine esteem and honor which you owe your curates as priests of the Most High. From your whole bearing it must be manifest that you possess a great soul, filled with burning love of God and disinterested zeal for your brethren's true welfare; zeal that is for their progress in virtue and in their further training in the cure of souls. May the love of God impel you to meet their every wish with kindliness, with loving consideration, and wTith a ready heart. Help them like a good father with friendly advice and prompt assistance, for thus speaketh the Lord: "These things I command you, that you love one another" (John xv. 17). If you act with a brother's love, the con- fidence of the younger priests will never be wanting, that confidence wThich is of such im- mense importance in introducing them more and more into the cure of souls, in discreetly moderating their youthful impetuosity, in preserving them in their first fervor and making them valiant coadjutors in the king- dom of Christ. It is also but meet and just 92 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS that you take council with your curates in matters appertaining to the cure of souls, though with prudence and discretion. In course of time let them gain a proper insight into the whole management of a parish, put- ting aside that kind of reserve and uncom- municativeness which is often taken for dis- trust, and which, too, in its turn is the cause of distrust, reserve, and uncommunicative- ness on their part. See that the pastoral work is distributed fairly and make allow- ance for special circumstances. Make it a rule not to burden others with your own duties, unless you can not help it, and always acknowledge extraordinary services with due gratitude. Be lenient toward small shortcomings and weaknesses and do not expect from youth the maturity of old age. Youth thinks and acts in a way befitting youth. Do not forget that you thought and acted in the same way when you were young. Should you be obliged to reprimand, let it be done with tender consideration and loving meekness, at the proper time and in the proper place. If complaints come from outside, make it a principle to defend or at least excuse your THE PASTOR AND THE CURATES 93 assistant priests as far as you are able to do so. Let your curates see that your whole way of thinking is far above any spirit of petti- ness and narrow-mindedness. Respect and acknowledge, even to the smallest detail, the claims and rights which they justly possess, just as you insist on yours being respected and acknowledged. Take notice of the fact, also, that the good relations between pastor and curates have already become somewhat strained as soon as they feel obliged to assert and define their respective rights and priv- ileges. With regard to board and lodging see that your curates want for nothing that is cus- tomary in well-ordered presbyteries, and try to meet any reasonable wish and desire with the greatest liberality, without showing any sign of a niggardly spirit. Never force yourself upon any one in his leisure time, but as far as depends on you have consideration for the special likings of every one. My son! "Let the charity of the brother- hood abide in you" (Heb. xiii. 1). Prac- tise it in the way I have shown you. It will 94 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS entirely win over the heart of your brother, and instead of weakening your authority as superior, it will ground it deeper in love. On the other hand, frequently reflect that your authority will suffer greatly if you give way to whims and fancies in dealing with your brother priests and make light of the social refinements that reveal the man of tact. How can you be astonished if youth forgets itself and oversteps the proper lim- its, after you yourself have transgressed them? Truly such behavior would not be- token genuine brotherly love, but rather point to a neglect in the previous cultivation of your social qualities. CHAPTER VII THE CURATES AND THE PASTOR My son! Constantly keep before your eyes that God wishes your dealings with your superiors to be a model and source of edification to all your subjects, for in every- thing you are placed as an example before your congregation. Now, if it becomes the pastor to take into account the different characters and quali- ties of his assistant priests and to treat them accordingly, with how much more reason will the latter have to accommodate them- selves to the character and to the possible shortcomings of the pastor? For not only as superior, but also on account of his more advanced age, he has a claim to it. If you wish to regulate your relations to your superior according to God's will, you must never forget to consider yourself his subject and act as such. But do not imagine that thereby you perform a work of extraor- dinary virtue or of supererogation ; it is but 05 96 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS your duty and a demand of strict justice. Let, then, your whole way of acting bear testimony to the esteem and honor you cherish for your superior. Be obedient in everything and conscientiously respect his position and rights at home and in parish affairs. Above all, avoid introducing changes and innovations in the church, school, or congregation without his consent. That is the pastor's business and lies outside your province. Besides, it requires a thor- ough, well-balanced insight into all the con- ditions of the parish, and a prudent, well- considered procedure ; otherwise more harm than good will result. If you deem it neces- sary to call attention to certain abuses and evils in the management of the parish or the cure of souls, do it only after mature con- sideration, and then with all deference and at the proper season. In presence of other priests, and espe- cially before the eyes of the public, make it your duty to give your pastor the first place, so that it may be manifest to all that you see and reverence in him the superior whom God has placed over you. At all times speak with great regard and esteem of your superiors, and make the firm THE CURATES AND THE PASTOR 97 resolution, once for all, never to mention their faults or weaknesses, if there are any, without very good reasons. If this is neg- lected, reverence and fraternal love are sure to be violated, their authority will be weak- ened, and your good relations with them easily disturbed. Think of the grosser faults and weaknesses of your own past and present life, and you will find grounds enough to pass over in silence the short- comings of your spiritual brethren and your superiors. Let it be rather a loving task of yours to shield and defend your pastor, as far as possible, or — to say the least — pru- dently to change the topic of conversation, whenever this painful subject has been touched upon. Eeceive your instructions from your su- perior with a willing heart, To him, as the more experienced, it naturally falls to intro- duce you into the practical side of a pastor's life and to teach you how to manage a parish on an independent footing. Let me con- vince you that you can derive great profit from the experience of the parish priest. He has gone for years through that instruc- tive school of life, which nothing, not even the profoundest learning, can replace. Or 98 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS who has a clearer insight into the difficulties and dangers a priest has to face in the cure of souls — the experienced old man or the fresh new curate? Ponder earnestly in your heart over all the good instructions and counsels which are given to you with such well-meant intentions for your own welfare and the good of the souls which are entrust- ed to you. Oh, do not persuade yourself that you do not stand in need of advice! You ought to feel greatly thankful if your supe- rior raises his voice in admonition and warning and always with a father's love and care. With regard to the share of the work which will be allotted to you, do not draw the line too finely, even if you think that more is laid on your shoulders than is your strict due. A young, energetic man knows how to master a great task. If, unfortu- nately, the condition of the parish should clearly point to neglect and carelessness on the part of the pastor, it would be a grave mistake if you were to grow sullen and abandon the execution of your former noble resolutions. Rather may the love of souls inflame your zeal and quicken your fervor, to set to work with all the energy at your THE CURATES AND THE PASTOR 99 disposal and to toil even more than you would do under well-ordered circumstances. Never disregard the well-grounded wishes of your superior concerning the visiting of families and the attending of social gather- ings. Always mindful of your youth and inexperience, be from the outset rather in- clined to distrust your own judgment than that of your superior. If there is a good reason why you should not follow certain advice, let it be done with wise discretion and without hurting any one's feelings. In indifferent things it is an admirable thing to prefer the superior's will to one's own. In all your dealings with your pastor be polite, affable, obliging, considerate, and of a generous and self-sacrificing spirit. Try to do him a kindness whenever opportunity offers itself. Be always ready to sacrifice an hour or so of your free time, if you can do him a favor this way. On the other hand, be on your guard against obtruding yourself unseasonably and take your leave as soon as you notice that you are causing some in- convenience. Do not contradict on small provocation, especially not in presence of laymen! If, however, it seems necessary, let it be done 100 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS modestly and with discrimination. But, then, never forget that you address yourself to your superior. Guard against the spirit of criticism and never adopt the appearance of playing the part of teacher. This does not become a young man and has seldom done any good. If the pastor expresses disapproval or gives you a slight rebuke, do not show that you are irritated or offended, especially when you are in the wrong. Talk the matter over with him quietly and objectively, un- less you prefer to remain absolutely silent on the point. Finally, cultivate simple tastes and be easily satisfied with the various arrange- ments of the presbytery. Take into account the different circumstances and do not ex- pect to find the same comforts wherever you go. My son! In this way always esteem, honor, and love your pastor with a sincere affection as your brother and superior in Christ. Let peace go before all. Be ready to make even great sacrifices for the sake of peace ; for how can priests preach about peace if they do not live in peace among themselves? How can they do good work THE CURATES AND THE PASTOR 101 in the vineyard of the Lord, if they con- stantly find fault with one another? Divine grace will amply reward you and send superabundant blessings on your work in the cure of souls, if you follow my words. Moreover, you may rest assured that in this way you will gain your superior's confi- dence, and in humility and meekness you will possess peace of heart. "By this shall all men know that you are my disciples, if you have love one for another" {John xiii. 35). "But we entreat you, brethren, that you abound more" (1 Thess. iv. 10). CHAPTER VIII CURATES AND NEIGHBORING PRIESTS My son ! It is a precept given by Christ, that all priests of Holy Church should em- brace one another with sincere benevolence, holy reverence, and sacred brotherly love, and that not only in words but in deeds also. For by receiving the holy priesthood they have become second Christs and brothers in a higher sense than ordinary Christians. They work for the same glorious end, the welfare of the Church and the salvation of immortal souls; they are the leaders and champions of the Church militant, which is surrounded by countless enemies, persecut- ed, and bitterly hated. How necessary is it, then, that they should stand united, assisting one another, hold- ing out a helping hand to a brother in dis- tress, and furthering each other's noble en- deavors to the utmost of their power! How necessary is it, then, in the fight against the common foe, that they should be more closely 102 CURATES AND NEIGHBORING PRIESTS 103 united and more resolute in their war- fare than leaders of worldly armies! For the noble and eternal issues with which a priest has to deal infinitely surpass the high- est temporal ideals. Now, if the spirit of concord, common in- terests, and true, genuine brotherly love ought to link together all the priests of the earth, how much more will Christ, Our Lord, require the same bond among priests who work in the same parish or in neighbor- ing parishes ! This, my son, is the spirit which ought to unite you to your brethren; and if your heart is not penetrated with it, know that you are no priest after the heart of your Lord. With regard to your dealings with other curates of the same parish take a lesson from the disciples of Jesus, who lived as brothers. Neither play the hermit nor withdraw entirely from their company ; for a stone which is to be inserted into the build- ing must be cut out and chiseled, and the diamond which is to adorn the crown must first be fashioned and polished. "Woe to him that is alone; for when he falleth, he hath none to lift him up" (Eccles. iv. 10). 104 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Moreover, solitary habits easily offend against charity. Only then are you a true follower of Christ, if you bear any annoy- ance occasioned by your brethren with pa- tience and meekness, always mindful that you yourself may be a burden to others. At all times treat your brethren with due respect, according to their dignity. In re- turn they can not but treat you respectfully, and your relations will bear the stamp of propriety and well-ordered charity. Be candid, true, and without guile; be meek, obliging, and always ready to do a favor. Try to lighten your brother's bur- den, never add to its weight. Be a good counsellor in difficulties, a ready helper in need, and full of sympathy in the hour of sorrow. Be as anxious about their honor and repu- tation as you are about your own, and let sincere affection move you, when an oppor- tunity presents itself, to call attention to faults and little indiscretions wrhich may be offensive to others. Be glad and rejoice if the gifts and vir- tues of your brethren are praised, and gen- erously acknowledge their superior attain- CURATES AND NEIGHBORING PRIESTS 105 ments, in your own heart and before others. Do not give way to captious jealousy if others are considered more skilful and more talented than you, if they are entrusted with the more difficult and more honorable part of the work. As a priest, be above human praise and vainglory, and strive solely after God's glory and the salvation of souls, whether this be accomplished by you or by others. If in truth and reality, that is to say, in the light of eternity, you desire to be first, then "be the last of all and the servant of all" (Mark ix. 34). Take this word to heart, my son, and ponder over it again and again. If, however, you are more liberally en- dowed with gifts of nature and grace than your brethren, consider the following word of Holy Writ: "The greater thou art, the more humble thyself in all things and thou shalt find grace before God" (Ecclus. iii. 20). With regard to your work in the cure of souls, let it be your earnest endeavor to do your duty most faithfully and to be ready to assist your brother priest, whenever there is an occasion. Beware, however, of inter- 106 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS fering with another man's work unneces- sarily; for this endangers the common peace. Just as curates of the same parish have certain relations to one another, so in pro- portion have those of neighboring parishes. It is well known to you that for many parish priests the neighboring priests are the only people with whom they can enter- tain suitable social intercourse. Some need the advice of a brother priest in difficulties and matters of importance. Others are so isolated that they depend on one another for the sacrament of Penance; and, besides, in the absence of your neighbor, it may become your duty to administer the last sacraments or visit the sick in his parish. These and other reasons may induce you to live in peace and concord with neighbor- ing priests and keep up a becoming friendly intercourse, and this all the more if your neighbor largely depends on you or stands in need of your assistance. In true humility esteem your brethren higher than yourself and make the resolu- tion to be in a special way attentive and kind towards older priests. Show by word and deed that you desire CURATES AND NEIGHBORING PRIESTS 107 every one's good, and you will win for your- self the character of a simple-hearted and sincere pastor of souls. Keep secret what others confide to you and you will possess the confidence of many. Be always ready to help others in fulfilling their pastoral duties, and do not expect favors from others if you yourself are niggardly. Without good reason do not push your claims on the services of others, and make it a point to acknowledge the smallest favor done to you. According to God's holy will, priests of the same or of the neighboring parishes ought to vie with one another in the most conscien- tious fulfilment of their priestly and pas- toral duties, and be models of virtue and sanctity to one another. A brother is his brother's shield, protecting him by his coun- sel and advice and ready to help in the perils of this earthly warfare, so that neither his enemies of this world nor those of the next may triumph over him. Unity and mutual support among the clergy will be a source of edification to the faithful and contribute powerfully to the realization of the ideal of a priest's social and pastoral life, while the rupture of these relations is a terrible ca- lamity among brethren. 108 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Do as I have told you, my son, and my blessing will be upon you and your brethren. Disciple. May God give me His grace and enlighten and strengthen me to live up to the instructions I have received. But Thou, Master, deign to instruct me further, and teach me how I may be more like Thee in all my dealings with my fellow priests. CHAPTER IX INTERCOURSE WITH FELLOW PRIESTS Be of good cheer, My son, listen to My word with a willing heart and the Lord will be with you ! When visiting priests faithfully observe the dictates of good breeding and politeness. Distribute your visits so as not to neglect any one ; do not act on impulse, but accord- ing as necessity and propriety should re- quire. As to the frequency and length of your visits, take into account the special cir- cumstances and the wishes of those con- cerned. Remember, also, that it is a law of practi- cal prudence to maintain a certain reserve at the beginning of a new acquaintance. Let not the novelty of the situation mislead you to exceed due limits in this respect. Many have begun with rather frequent visits, have soon grown tired of them, and in the end have given them up completely, to the great annoyance of the other party. 109 110 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Choose a suitable time for your visits ; be most exacting and punctual if any appoint- ment has been made, and only for special reasons exceed the time which you have de- termined upon, as a rule, beforehand. Be careful not to cause inconvenience, and leave as soon as you find your presence be- coming tiresome to your fellow priest. Let your whole behavior be staid and dig- nified. Do not behave in too free a manner and keep a check upon yourself in word and deed. A strong love for your Master would in- duce you, before you pay your visit to your fellow priest, to visit Him in His dwelling- place and pay your homage to Him, who should hold the first place among all friends. Whenever fellow priests come to see you, receive them with kindness and cordiality and willingly make the sacrifice of your time. If their coming involves a little in- convenience, do not let them know it, un- less, of course, your pastoral duties require it. On the other hand, no friend of yours can expect you to waste several afternoons in the week in idle gossip; such an ill- advised practice must be prudently but firmly put a stop to at the very outset. FELLOW PRIESTS 111 Show yourself hospitable and give freely of what you possess, always, however, with- in reasonable limits and according to your means. To be stingy and miserly would be by far the greater evil. With regard to yourself, remember that it is a sign of tact and good breeding to observe moderation in asking hospitality of others. As to the kind of conversation indulged in, take into consideration the wishes of your brethren as far as possible. He would be very wanting in humility who should al- ways insist on having his own way. I most earnestly recommend to you not to play games too much or for too high stakes ; for excess leads to excitement; those who lose become impatient, and altogether there is danger that angry words, if not something worse, may follow. When speaking with others avoid what- ever is vulgar, frivolous, or unbecoming. Your conversation ought not only to be pleasing to others but also edifying and in- structive. Keep in mind that in your speech the spirit which guides your inner- most soul will become manifest; for "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh" (Luke vi. 45). 112 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Let principles of truth and justice, pru- dence and charity guide you in your judg- ments. In presence of elderly and more ex- perienced priests give your opinion with due deference and reserve. Nothing is felt more keenly by them than the behavior of young priests, who only too readily express their unripe opinions on any matter, rashly give their judgment on any subject, and try to act the schoolmaster to the old. On the other hand, if you have grown gray in the service of the Lord, or if you hold a more prominent position in the diocese, regard it as due to the dignity of your office or age to consider younger priests or those in inferior positions as your brethren. Do not treat them with that patronizing condescension, which is highly offensive, causes bad feel- ing, and to be quite plain, is often nothing but a bad disguise for secret pride. Cer- tainly such behavior does not come from the spirit of Christ. Yet there are some who fail in this respect. Guard against that bad habit of contra- dicting everything which is said and sup- press satirical and sarcastic remarks as far as possible, as they are easily misunderstood and may do great harm. Make it a rule FELLOW PRIESTS 113 never to say anything that may give pain to your brother ; if it should be necessary, do it after giving the matter careful considera- tion. When contradicted, never show resent- ment; for truth gains when supported by humility and meekness, while if it is insisted upon with anger it loses much of its persua- sive power. As to confession, keep your lips sealed with the most sacred silence; of God and holy things always speak with esteem and reverence. Do not drag into conversation the faults of others ; if you have to speak of them, in- cline rather to leniency than strictness. Apart from humility, even Christian pru- dence should prevent you from judging rashly the work of your fellow priests. As a rule, nothing will be gained by it ; but your remarks are liable to be reported, and great inconveniences may arise therefrom. Above all, avoid disrespect in speaking of your spiritual superiors; for they hold God's place on earth. At least endeavor to change the conversation to another subject, when unfavorable mention is being made of them. In giving praise be judicious and 114 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS avoid exaggeration; do not seek the praise of others. Be not intimate with many and do not open your heart to everybody, but put your- self into the hands of a wise and holy man whom you know to observe the fear of God (Ecclus. xxxviii. 15) . This, however, should not keep you from speaking on spiritual matters with other priests who are fond of this kind of relaxation and derive from it spiritual profit. But do not make an out- ward show of your zeal and piety, and care- fully avoid anything eccentric or peculiar in your practice of virtue ; otherwise virtue is brought into ridicule. Observe, however, that all men feel a great esteem and attrac- tion for virtue which hides itself. Consider it a gain and the highest gain imaginable, that you should be able to do some good to your brother priests or to those of their flock. CHAPTER X DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS My son! I can not but raise my voice once more, so that it may re-echo in your heart and that you may never forget it. It is the voice of your Lord and Saviour: "Supporting one another in charity, be careful to keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace" (Eph. iv. 2, 3). Listen to the words which on the eve of the passion broke forth from His heart, burning with love: "Holy Father, keep them in Thy name, whom Thou hast given Me: that they may be one as we also are" (John xvii. 11) . This appeal, made for you, your fellow- brethren, and the faithful of all times passed through the heavens up to the throne of your Father, "that they all may be one, as Thou, Father in Me and I in Thee ; that they also may be one in Us" (John xvii. 21). Now try to fathom the depth of His sor- row when in that solemn hour His all-seeing 115 116 KULES FOR PASTOR OF SOULS eye glanced down through the centuries and He foresaw that even with priests, His chosen friends, the fruit of this fervent prayer would be lost; when He perceived that precisely through discord and enmity among priests, infidelity, heresy, and all the powers hostile to His kingdom, would gain such enormous strength; when He realized the immense damage done by discord among priests to the fair name of His spouse, the Church, and to the divine work of saving souls. Eemember that discord among priests is chiefly the devil's doing, because he is filled with the bitterest hatred against priests; for he knows full well that it is priests who show mankind, for which he cherishes such hatred, the way to heaven; he knows it is priests who intervene in man's behalf and gain for him the most precious graces. He knows that priests themselves are destined to that eternal, unspeakable bliss, which he has forever forfeited. Therefore he has risen against them in the fury of his wrath and burns with an insatiable thirst for their destruction. But there is nothing which gives that serpent of hell more malicious de- light than to be able to sow discord, hatred, DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS 117 and enmity among priests; for that is the poisonous seed from which spring unutter- able calamities for the pastors themselves and for the eternal welfare of their flocks. There have been priests who for years to- gether had bravely withstood his malicious attacks ; but, alas, one day the ever- watchful enemy succeeded in hurling them headlong down from the heights of their dearly won virtue ; he succeeded in breaking the bond of peace that held them united to their fellow priests or superiors. Now he threw open their hearts to those manifold passions, against which they had hitherto fought so manfully. You, my son, be on your guard against that terrible fiend, Satan, who is always on the watch to create ill-feeling between you and your brethren. He will endeavor to make use of you — though at the time you may not be aware of it — as a tool, in carry- ing out his diabolical designs. Your own nature, so prone to sin, and the passions of your heart, are his most powerful allies. In addition, external circumstances, difference of character, clashing of interests owing to diversity of position or privilege — all these may easily cause misunderstandings. 118 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Again, differences of education, maturity of judgment or age, naturally tend to create a different view of life. Finally, dwelling together implies so much intercourse be- tween the pastor and his curates, as easily to give rise to differences of opinion, ill- humor, coldness, and tension, not to men- tion things worse than these. From this you will see what foolishness, what harm, what sin those priests are guilty of, who through their own fault are the cause of disagreement, ill-feeling, and out- breaks of passion. Ought they not, in the face of the terrible consequences which en- sue from such behavior, to do their utmost to love one another in the Lord and to bear with the defects and shortcomings of their brethren? Certainly then only may they count on God's all-powerful assistance and have the assurance that their enemy, the devil, will never secure the victory over them. Be convinced, my son, that it is concord and unity of hearts alone, that give to priests the strength of an invincible army. My dearly beloved son! I have not left you in ignorance of the longing with which your Saviour yearns that you may live and DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS 119 work in peace and love and unity with your brethren. This I have put before you with kindness and meekness, but now listen also to words of severity addressed to those priests who knowingly and willingly foster hatred and enmity in their hearts. Let it be known to them — so that they may be in- excusable and unable to shelter themselves under any false plea or pretext, and be dumbfounded before the divine anger — let it be known to them that nothing provokes God's inexorable wrath more than hatred and enmity among priests. For they have been called precisely for the purpose of preaching love and charity to the world and of giving testimony to the True Light by the flame of their own overflowing charity. If the kind and gentle words of their Sav- iour do not move them, may His terrible wrath, at least, and the dread of His just vengeance on the great day of reckoning strike fear and horror into their hearts. Such priests deserve to feel the full force of His divine severity for this reason alone, that, instead of being an example, they are a stumbling-block to those committed to their care. They tear from the hearts of the faithful their deep-rooted esteem and 120 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS reverence for priest and sacraments. Many children of Holy Church have become luke- warm and indifferent, or have even lost their faith, because they could not understand how priests could daily approach the altar to celebrate the most holy mysteries and at the same time persecute one another with the bitterest hatred and animosity, and that for years together! Oh, the blindness and hard-heartedness of such priests! But the evil does not stop here. Only too often other priests have been drawn into these abominable quarrels, and parishes have split up into parties, leading to fresh enmities and bitter conflicts. How awful and lamentable is this state of affairs, if pre- cisely they are to blame for all these misfor- tunes, who by their very profession should severely denounce and condemn enmities and make every effort to reconcile those who are not united by the bonds of peace ! Also to these priests those terrible words are ap- plicable : "But he that shall scandalize one of these little ones that believe in Me, it were better for him that a mill-stone should be hanged about his neck and, that he should be drowned in the depth of the sea" {Matt, xviii. 6). DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS 121 As a punishment for the great scandal which they give to " these little ones," they are stricken with such blindness that they daily provoke God to allow the sentence of eternal reprobation to fall upon them; for with their sinful lips they dare pray, "and forgive us our trespasses, as we for- give them that trespass against us." But how can the divine Judge pardon irrecon- cilable priests, since He has spoken that just word : ' i But if you will not forgive, neither will your Father that is in heaven forgive you your sins" {Mark xi. 26), and "Heaven and earth shall pass, but My words shall not pass" {Matt. xxiv. 35) ? My son! "Remember thy last things and let enmity cease" {Ecclus. xxviii. 6). Reconcile yourself before the day on which the Lord shall come, as a thief in the night, and ere an unmerciful judgment befall you because you have not pardoned your brother from your heart. Disciple. Thy words, O Lord, are full of severity and anger. "Fear and trembling seize upon me, and all my bones are af- frighted" {Job iv. 14) when I ponder over the terrible condemnations which fall like thunder and lightning from the lips of God 122 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS upon priests who live in enmity and hatred. Fear and anxiety overwhelm me, because of my infirmity and little understanding. How shall I, a weak, miserable being, be able to withstand the malicious attacks of Satan, to whom the Lord has left such power and understanding ! Be Thou, O Lord, my pro- tector and my saviour, and place on my head the helmet of salvation, that I may bravely overcome the enemies of my soul. Master, my heart is ready to fulfil Thy law, and my will is made up to seek per- fection in everything. Therefore teach me what disturbs peace among priests, that I may take the necessary precautions against it ; teach me also what I am to do if I should ever be so unfortunate as to offend one of my brethren, and how I am to act if one of my brethren injures or offends me. CHAPTER XI DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS [Continued] Master. From what I have said it will be obvious that discord among priests is in itself a terrible calamity; yet open and no- torious enmity among priests of the same place or presbytery is more terrible still. Where such exists, the persons concerned should strive for its removal with untiring energy; for it is the source of frequent scandals and other evil consequences. The causes of discord may be manifold. Parish priests easily disturb the peace and concord of the presbytery, if they show themselves unkind, cold, and unfriendly to- ward their curates; if they bestow less care and attention on their treatment and general well-being than on that of the other inmates of the house ; if they side with the latter in everything; if they speak lightly of their curates with neighboring priests or with people in or out of the house; if they are 123 124 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OP SOULS never satisfied, even with the best actions, combined with the best intentions; if, in fact, they find fault with everything ; if they overburden others unduly and spare them- selves most conscientiously; if in their jeal- ousy and narrow-mindedness they check every noble endeavor, place others always in the background, and go so far as to lay down for them stringent rules of conduct on trivial matters, as if their curates were chil- dren in the nursery. If a priest thus treats his spiritual breth- ren, must he not provoke them to dissatis- faction, bitterness, disobedience and even* worse f Truly heroic must be the virtue of him, who, following Christ in His profound humility, controls and humbles himself un- der these circumstances and does not give way to outbursts of passion ! On the other hand, curates may also dis- turb the peaceful relations which ought to obtain in the presbytery, by giving the par- ish priest occasion of discontent and an- noyance. They give genuine cause for com- plaint by taking liberties with the people in the presbytery or by indiscretion in dealing with outsiders, by want of reverence or obe- dience, by a certain haughtiness of manner DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS 125 which repels the offer, much more the acceptance, of advice and paternal instruc- tion. Further obvious causes are encroach- ment on their superiors' rights and priv- ileges, absence of candor or straightfor- wardness in their dealings, carelessness in fulfilling their duties, unpunctuality at home or in the church. Further, the pa- tience of the parish priest may be sorely tried, if curates cause unnecessary expense and are unreasonable as to their food and lodging, in their demands on the servants, and in regard to the general management of the presbytery. Concerning the relations between parish priests and holders of benefices, if there be such in the parish, the former must keep in mind that they fail greatly by looking down upon the latter or treating them as mere cu- rates. The parish priests have to acknowl- edge and respect their established privileges and independent position, not only partly and where it is convenient, but to their full extent. Ordinary priests are greatly mis- taken, if they imagine that they have a right to demand certain services from these bene- ficed priests; they can only claim them on the ground of charity. 126 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Holders of benefices, on their part, are greatly to be blamed, if they refuse due re- spect to the parish priest, encroach on his parochial rights, form indiscreet or harsh judgments about his management of parish affairs, side with the other party in dissen- sions and quarrels, or refuse assistance without reason where it is urgently needed. My son ! Before I answer your two other questions, the love of my heart impels me to assure you that your readiness to act ac- cording to perfection in everything is pleas- ing in the sight of God. But now you must prove also that you wTill not be wanting in carrying out your resolution. Therefore prepare your heart for greater sacrifices; without these you can not follow my in- structions. You know how repugnant discord among priests is to the love and sanctity of your Saviour. Do, then, your utmost to live in peace with them, to bear with their weak- nesses, and never to give occasion for dis- content. Prudence and an obliging disposi- tion will help you much in this matter. But now, if you should have had the mis- fortune to wound or seriously offend your brother, let the sun not set before you have DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS 127 asked his pardon and tried to be reconciled to him again. Otherwise there arises es- trangement, and this begets coldness, aver- sion, discord, and enmity, with a host of other evil consequences, and your heart will be open to the base suggestions of Satan. I therefore admonish you the more earnest- ly to this speedy reconciliation, as experi- ence proves that estrangement and coldness grow more intensely the longer the tension lasts. Nay, I should go so far as to say that any postponement renders complete rec- onciliation much more difficult. More- over, your soul will be disquieted by some unrest, which will rob you of your internal peace and that strengthening joy and fer- vor with which you were wont to throw yourself into the work of saving souls. These anxieties can be avoided at once by offering generous satisfaction to your brother. Remember this saying of Holy Writ : "If therefore thou offer thy gift at the al- tar, and there thou remember that thy brother hath anything against thee, leave there thy offering before the altar, and go first to be reconciled to thv brother, and then coming thou shalt offer thy gift" 128 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS (Matt. v. 23, 24) . Know, then, that no work of yours can be pleasing in the sight of God, as long as you remain unreconciled. If you observe that your brother feels of- fended or has something against you, the reason of which is unknown to you, do not omit to inquire of him whether you have hurt him and ask his pardon, if necessary ; otherwise a trifling misunderstanding may be the cause of a long-standing dissension between you. On the other hand, if you have been hurt, pray fervently to the Lord for strength to overcome manfully the very first rising of indignation and to forgive the offence heart- ily. Thus you will " overcome evil by good" (Rom. xii. 21). Do not bear your brother a grudge in your heart, render not evil for evil, as the pagans do, but recom- pense evil with good, and " doing this, thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head" (Rom. xii. 20). Pray for your brother, that God may enlighten him, lovingly meet him halfway, and show yourself ready to be reconciled, if in any way he manifests by his behavior that he is sorry for his fault. "And if he sin against thee seven times in a day and seven times in a day be converted DISCORD AMONG PRIESTS 129 unto thee, saying : i I repent, ' forgive him' ' {Luke xvii. 4). Thus act the elect of the Lord. They fol- low the promptings of grace, not those of nature. Keep in mind that the infinite God Himself is at all times willing to admit even His bitterest enemies to mercy and grace, if they only sincerely repent of their sins. Those who in their blindness refuse pardon to their repentant brother and even go so far as to demand greater satisfaction for themselves than they offer to God's infinite majesty for their own innumerable sins, challenge His most severe justice and ven- geance with unaccountable wantonness. But if your brother does not choose to be reconciled to you, although you have done your utmost, the whole weight of the re- sponsibility will fall on him. But even then, out of your charity for souls, use every means in your power, that no scandal be given to the faithful. In the eyes of the public be obliging to your obdurate brother, just as if your friendship remained per- fectly unimpaired. This is in truth a royal victory over yourself and a sure sign of high perfection. There have been priests in such unhappy 130 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS circumstances who preferred, with the con- sent of their bishop, to resign their position, rather than continue to live with an irrecon- cilable brother, and thus give grave scandal to the faithful and risk their own eternal salvation. Thus St. Paul exhorts you: "Put ye on therefore as the elect of God, holy and be- loved, the bowels of mercy, benignity, hu- mility, modesty, patience. Bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if any have a complaint against another, even as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also. But above all these things have charity, which is the bond of perfection' ' (Col. iii. 12-14). PART III 131 CHAPTER I THE PRIEST AT THE BEGINNING OF HIS MINISTRY My son ! Soon after your installation see that you pay your respects to all those per- sonages with whom you are likely to trans- act official business or who may be possessed of special influence in the place. This at- tention, at once a demand of courtesy and prudence, will never cause any harm and is often of great value. It has the further advantage of making you acquainted with the influential men of your parish, before official business or pastoral duties bring you into contact with them. Content yourself with quiet observation for some time, keep in the background, be neither hasty nor forward in managing af- fairs, and you may be sure your parishion- ers will gain the conviction that the ship of the parish is guided by a sober and prudent pilot. They will soon find that the spirit of innovation or rashness or impetuosity does 133 134 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS not prompt your actions, but only the con- sciousness of duty, and that after sound and mature consideration. This will win the hearts of the faithful, gain their confidence, and place your authority on a firm footing. On the other hand, it irritates people to see their parish priest interfering from the first unnecessarily in all the affairs of the congregation and perhaps introducing changes simply for the sake of change. By such action many a priest has caused wide- spread dissatisfaction and alienated the hearts of the faithful. Keserve, at this stage, is also more becoming, as you have not yet sufficient insight into the condition of your flock. Not a superficial acquaint- ance but solid and thorough observation will enable you to form a correct estimate of the real state of affairs. If you have gained the firm conviction that reforms are indeed necessary, be not precipitate, but proceed cautiously, yet persistently. You will never achieve much by showing scant reverence to your predecessor, and when a change must be made, you need not proclaim it by sound of trumpet. It is also generally better to obtain the necessary information about the special BEGINNING OF MINISTRY 135 needs and difficulties of your congregation from your predecessor or from unbiased neighboring priests, instead of inquiring di- rectly from your parishioners themselves; for thus you may easily compromise your- self and forfeit the confidence of many. Besides, if you are alive to the interests of your flock, and frequently go to see them in their homes, your own observation will show you what is needful and profitable to them. In this way you will also form a judgment of your owrn of the different characters of the individuals, the religious and political views of the more influential persons, and the condition of the various clubs of your parish. All this will give you the necessary clues and lights as to your conduct and your whole method of procedure in the cure of souls. "For, every tree is known by its fruit. For, men do not gather figs from thorns, nor from bramble bush do they gather the grape" (Lake vi. 44) ; and "as the faces of them that look therein, shine in the water, so the hearts of men are laid open to the wise" (Prov. xxvii. 19). Should your parish unfortunately be split into parties on any subject, be not so indis- creet as to side with the one or the other, 136 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS nor let yourself be drawn into any party strife. Keep constantly before your eyes that as priest and shepherd of the flock, it is your duty to be their peacemaker. But how will you be a messenger of peace, if you have attached yourself to one of the fac- tions? In the course of time, endeavor to calm excited minds, to remove, if possible, the causes of dissension, and to bring your in- fluence to bear upon the leading men of both sides. With patience and prudence you will not unfrequently succeed in re-establishing peace and concord. Treat the personal and political adversaries of your predecessors with the necessary caution, yet with the same attention and consideration as others, without betraying any sign of partiality or bias. By such means many a man has been induced to change his life. Now let me caution you, my son, against entering upon or entertaining too familiar relations with special families, which are more congenial to you. Do you, perhaps, be- lieve that you thereby strengthen your authority? "A prophet is not without honor, save in his own country and in his own house" (Matt. xiii. 57). The inhabit- BEGINNING OF MINISTRY 137 ants of Nazareth despised even the Son of God, whom no one could accuse of sin, be- cause they saw Him eat, drink, and work like ordinary mortals, and because His foster- father, Joseph, and His relatives were poor. How little will those esteem you, who, in familiar intercourse, detect faults and weaknesses in you, which they could not have seen from a distance and which they did not expect to find in a priest. Famil- iarity often breeds contempt, and what is of frequent occurrence, even if great in itself, is liable to be looked upon as trivial; much more what is faulty and sinful ! Therefore observe what the " Imitation of Christ" says: "We must have charity for all, but familiarity is not expedient. It sometimes happens that a person, when not known, shines by a good reputation, who, when he is present, is disagreeable to them that see him. We think sometimes to please others by being with them ; and we begin rather to disgust them by the evil behavior which they discover in us.,, l Moreover, there is danger that in familiar intercourse laymen become acquainted with things which had better be unknown to * Imitation of Christ, i, 8. 138 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS them, things which, as a rule, do not tend to make them more pious and God-fearing, but may do them positive harm. Try to im- agine what indignation and discord may arise, if this or that confidential remark, thoughtlessly uttered by you in familiar conversation, is repeated, and friendship is turned into enmity ! Thus it follows not un- frequently, that from unwise or misplaced confidence a priest soon finds his liberty of action circumscribed, and his independence almost gone; which restraints — caused by his own indiscretion — he would gladly shake off, were he not hindered by the dread of giving offence or scandal. If in your visits you prefer the better families, others will justly feel offended. In everything you do and arrange, the latter will suspect that you are influenced by the former, and that especially when divisions exist in the parish. Your authority and in- fluence will suffer greatly, and even suspi- cion of an evil kind may be raised against you. Take also into consideration that familiar relations with special families and private friendships often hinder that congenial in- tercourse with your brother priests which BEGINNING OF MINISTRY 139 is so extremely useful and salutary to you, and so edifying to all well-meaning people. My son! Do not count on the world's gratitude; those who do are sure to meet with disappointment. Have not even saint- ly priests who uniformly strove for good and combated evil, been often persecuted by those whom they meant to benefit ? There- fore disregard the approbation and the ap- proval of this world, while you tread the straight path of duty. Let pure motives, the love of God and your fellow-men, guide your actions, and the Lord Himself will ap- prove of and make manifest on the Last Day what good you have done, and He will give Himself to you as your superabundant re- ward for all eternity. CHAPTER II THE PRIEST AND HIS FLOCK My son ! Oh, that you might all the days of your priestly life remember that your Re- deemer has bought with His precious blood the immortal souls which are confided to your care ! How zealously, then, should you accept the charge of them and never tire, until you have become all to all ! Listen to your Saviour's words: "I am the good shepherd; I have sacrificed everything; I have given My life for My sheep. Follow My footsteps, after the manner of My apos- tles, and all saintly priests.' ' Disciple. My soul desires to follow Thee. Therefore give me instruction and teach me to deal with my parishioners in a manner pleasing to Thee and profitable to my own soul. Succor me with Thy grace, that I may be able to become all to all and renew all in Thee. Master. "Hear, my son, the words of My mouth and lay them as a foundation in 140 THE PRIEST AND HIS FLOCK 141 thy heart" (Tob. iv. 2). It is God's holy will, that you keep guard over and feed the flock entrusted to you, that you be a father to those who call themselves your spiritual children, and exclude no one from your pa- ternal care and fatherly love. Keep this at all times before your eyes, and it will not be difficult to shape your dealings with the peo- ple according to the divine pleasure. Give free access to each of your parish- ioners and treat them with fatherly kind- ness, condescension, and affability, yet mixed with dignified, noble reserve. This will gain their confidence, open their hearts and lips, and make them ready to follow your words and admonitions. Make it your aim never to allow anybody to leave you with discontent in his heart ; even if you are unable to comply with some requests, see that your children go from you consoled and resigned to their lot. The good shepherd goes after his sheep, that he may know them and they him. Therefore I can not too warmly exhort you to pay frequent visits to your parishioners in the interest of their souls. These visits will prove a powerful help in fulfilling your pastoral duties and a great blessing to the 142 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS families you visit. But before you go to see them, recommend them to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and pray for light, that He may guide your steps and lead you the right way. Propose to yourself to behave in such a manner as neither to disturb any one, nor cause inconvenience in any way, so that your spiritual children may rejoice at your com- ing and look forward to the next visit with delight. With fatherly sympathy inquire after all the members of the family, after their troubles and successes, their joys and sor- rows. Try to find out whether their reli- gious obligations are conscientiously ful- filled, and see to it that no connections dan- gerous to the welfare of the soul are formed. Likewise be observant as to whether unbe- coming pictures, books, newspapers or mag- azines, detrimental to faith or morals, are being circulated. Not infrequently one kind word will put a stop to many an abuse and substitute something better in its place. You will also easily find an opportunity to give parents valuable advice as to the choice of an occupation or profession for their children. In some cases you may call their attention to the special gifts their chil- THE PRIEST AND HIS FLOCK 143 dren possess, and suggest a thorough and well-grounded education, and, if circum- stances permit, even higher studies. Do not neglect this most important work; for it is of great advantage to the Church to see many of her children rise to higher call- ings and better positions in life ; for thereby they support and defend the interests of holy religion. You may also remember that a certain degree of wealth among your parishioners is highly conducive to carrying on the cure of souls successfully. Too great poverty easily leads to dishonesty, makes people de- pendent and servile, and often robs them of steadiness of character. For this reason in- sist again and again, and with all sincerity, on frugality and industry. If opportunity offers, try to procure for the less fortunate ones profitable work. Urge all workers to be progressive in their aims, perfecting themselves more and more in their various callings. Thus, while their daily avocation thereby becomes a labor of love, such con- scientious work will make them impercep- tibly acquire a strength and independence of character which will make it unnecessary to be servile to any employer; at the same 144 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS time, this will go a long way toward remov- ing the reproach of being inferior because they are Catholics. You will show them that energetic self-help is the key to much besides worldly success. Confidence in God's special intervention, then, is only justi- fied, when we have done all that lies in our power. In your private visits you will find ample opportunity for giving hints and instruc- tions regarding these and similar matters. "The poor you have always with you ; but Me you have not always'' (Matt. xxvi. 11). Do not think little of the poor, my son, nor refuse them your kind assistance; for it is part of your vocation to be a father to the poor. Cherish a high esteem for them, and keep in mind that our divine Lord chose a state of poverty for Himself and called the poor in spirit blessed. Liberally open your right hand, and fear lest the eternal judge may include you with the unmerciful in those words of condemnation: "I was hungry, and you gave me not to eat. I was thirsty, and you gave me not to drink" (Matt. xxv. 42). Do not forget that it is incomparably better and even more merito- rious than almsgiving, to procure for the THE PRIEST AND HIS FLOCK 145 poor settled employment and to assist them in obtaining from municipalities or the state those subsidies to which they are lawfully entitled. Let those who without their fault have fallen into misery and destitution, and are ashamed of being looked upon as poor, be the special object of your silent and hid- den charity. Be very zealous in visiting the sick; for they are in greater need of spiritual assist- ance and consolation than others. Trv to soothe their pains and sufferings by pray- ing with them and comforting and cheering them with pious words. Exhort them to patience and remind them of the eternal crowns which are in store for them. En- courage them to receive the blessings and sacraments of Holy Church frequently, and employ the greatest possible care that none of your parishioners die without the sacra- ments. Be a father to widows and orphans, a pro- tector to the oppressed, a comforter to the afflicted, a counsellor to the erring; in short, for all have a heart full of fatherly love and kindness. Nothing will secure you their af- fection and gratitude more than appearing like an angel of comfort in their midst in the 146 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS sad hours of suffering, and helping them in the days of need and misery. Even those who foster ill-feeling in their hearts will be conquered at last. A good shepherd, my son, goes after the lost sheep; he tries every means to find it and can not rest until he has led it back to the fold. Therefore evince lively interest for the welfare of sinners and do not con- sider any one lost, for whom you, as pastor of souls, have earnestly implored God's merciful grace. Wait for a favorable op- portunity to talk to them, and then lead them gently from the natural to the supernatural. Give special attention to the youths who devote themselves to study. See that they feel at home in your presence, and induce them to cultivate solid virtues and endeavor to save them from evil influences. Show yourself a fatherly friend and good coun- sellor especially to those young men who frequent universities and are exposed to many dangers. But, above all, devote your most anxious care to those who aspire to the priestly dignity. Be the friend of little children. " Suffer little children to come unto Me, and forbid them not; for of such is the kingdom of THE PRIEST AND HIS FLOCK 147 God" (Mark x. 14). Deal with them like a loving father, so that they may remember you with reverence, love, and gratitude their whole life long, and come to you in the troubles and trials of life with unstinted con- fidence. My son! Much, indeed, is demanded from you, but not too much, if you remem- ber that immortal souls are entrusted to you. When the sacrifices seem to you too great, call to mind that the Son of God leaves not even the cup of cold water unre- warded, which you give out of charity, and that He considers all done to Himself which you do to the least of His brethren. These consoling thoughts will inspire your heart with all-enduring courage, and give you that invincible strength which will en- able you to practise heroic charity, yea even to lay down your life for your flock. CHAPTER III THE PRIEST AND THE INFLUENTIAL MEN OF THE PARISH My son! Let me exhort you, as far as possible, to entertain good relations with those persons who on account of their po- sition in life, office, or wealth, or because of their higher education, prudence, expe- rience, or other personal gifts possess great influence in the parish. Daily experience teaches to what degree the weal or woe of a parish, the failure or success of an under- taking, depends on these people. If they are guided by the spirit of the Church and well-disposed toward you, they will most efficaciously support your good en- deavors. If not, they will keep aloof and you can never count on that active help which would be invaluable for your work. Anti-clerical or anti-religious persons will, out of regard for your person, take up a more moderate position and will more readily suppress their wonted spirit of ani- 148 INFLUENTIAL MEN OF THE PARISH 149 mosity, if you only know how to secure their esteem and good- will. If, on the other hand, they are ill-disposed or hostile toward you personally, they will put obstacles in your way, try to lessen your authority, even raise suspicions against you, and annoy you and your flock whenever they can. Learn from this that knowledge alone is of small avail to a priest, if he has not the common-sense and necessary tact to make concessions occasion- ally and to give way, when he can, without loss of principle. Disciple. Very often in my life I have experienced what influential people can do in promoting good or evil, and I deem it my duty to do all in my power to establish and maintain good relations with them. Yet in spite of my earnest endeavor I have not al- ways attained this end. Master. It is true, as priest you will never be able to satisfy everybody and you will never secure the friendship of all. Yet prudent and judicious conduct will largely tend toward winning over people of very dif- ferent opinions, political and religious. First of all, you must be careful to avoid in your conduct anything directly calculated to lose you the good opinion of worthy peo- 150 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS pie. This you will only attain by proving yourself to be a conscientious priest and a noble character whose every action is free from personal ambition and self-interest, and is the outcome of genuine zeal for the salvation of souls. They must first come to know you as a model of straightforwardness and of justice which is proof against any temptation. Even your enemies will thus not fail to hold you in esteem, which is often the safest basis of good relations. Yet to strength of character must be added a many-sided education, social and theolog- ical, as well as to a great extent a tactful behavior in friendly intercourse. If you do not fall short in any of these things, you can not but favorably impress those people whose good will would be likely to benefit your spiritual undertakings ; for they often consider a certain degree of general knowl- edge and some attention to ordinary social etiquette as an essential part of education, if not as education itself. How many an- noyances and frictions can be avoided by a due regard to the little social amenities of life, how many difficulties overcome, how much good accomplished ! Good will, a genial disposition, and a read- INFLUENTIAL MEN OP THE PARISH 151 mess to oblige, will cause you often to an- ticipate their wishes and will show them that you are always ready to clear up and settle matters in an amicable way, whenever differences of opinion or quarrels threaten ; in short, it will prove to them that you have the maintenance of good relations sincerely at heart. Even persons of different religious persuasion or unbelievers will be obliged to admit your claims upon their consideration, if you always speak of them with respect and without bitter feelings, and if you speak favorably of their good qualities when op- portunity offers. On the other hand, influential people will easily withdraw from you and resent it most keenly, if you are too ready to criticize their persons or actions. In such cases the safer rule is to keep silent, and you may rest as- sured that no priest had ever reason to re- gret his reserve or silence in f orming a judg- ment of others. Finally, I advise you, my son, to aim at re- spectful and friendly, but not familiar re- lations. Take good care to avoid any kind of dissension. If discord threatens, try by every means, without the sacrifice of prin- ciple, to prevent it. It is much easier to 152 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS prevent dissensions than to settle those which already prevail. But there may be cases where there is no room for an amicable settlement; then it will be your duty to en- ter into the contest in defence of higher in- terests, such as the rights of the Church, of faith, and morals; for Our Lord did not come to send peace, but the sword. Then uphold your cause, guided by the principles of Christian justice, Christian prudence, and Christian charity. Let your calmness be equalled by your perseverance, and let Jesus, meek and humble of heart, but cour- ageous and enduring to the end, be your model. Follow the glorious example of His disciples and His apostles, who conquered the world by self -conquest and unflinching struggles in the interest of truth. In this contest refrain from any passion- ate outbreaks in private or public, and on no account allow yourself to indulge in per- sonal attacks, in bitterness, or sarcasm. Prudence and religion alike condemn such methods. You thereby justify their use by your opponents, and you do more; you ex- asperate them to increased bitterness and boldness, and so bar the way to peace and reconciliation, by breaking the bruised reed INFLUENTIAL MEN OF THE PARISH 153 and extinguishing the smoking flax of hu- man kindness. All this consider well, my son; weigh it in your mind and try to put it into practice. Disciple. I trust in Thee, O Lord. Let Thy grace be a guiding staff to me, so that my foot may not stumble. For, it is no easy task to walk with sure steps upon the narrow path of duty, according to the wise instruc- tions Thou hast given me. CHAPTER IV THE PRIEST AND CIVIL AUTHORITIES My son, it has been a principle of Holy Church throughout all the centuries to aim at peace and mutual co-operation between the spiritual and secular powers, and to bring about an amicable settlement of dif- ferences of opinion that may arise, as long as the doctrine of the Church, her constitu- tion, and her rights, remain intact. This harmonious co-operation promotes the wel- fare of the Church as well as of the State in a most eminent degree, and is a source of the greatest and most abundant blessings for both. Conflicts between Church and State lead to serious perils and numberless evils. Therefore it is only becoming that priests, following the example of Holy Church, should aim at, promote, and maintain the best relations with the civil authorities, un- less important rights and interests of the Church are thereby endangered. Regarding your relations with the leading 154 PRIEST AND CIVIL AUTHORITIES 155 local authority, let me call your attention to some points in particular. First of all, do not forget that he holds an influential posi- tion, which will enable him, if you succeed in securing his co-operation, to be of eminent assistance to you to remedy abuses, to up- root bad customs, to remove certain occa- sions of evil, to maintain peace and order. On the other hand, bear in mind that it is in his power to cause you great annoyance and bitterness. Very often you will entirely depend on his good will and pleasure, and do not lose sight of the possibility that your lot may be cast with him for many years. Considering all this, you will do well to overlook many things and carefully guard against disturbing your good relations on account of trifling matters or slight human weaknesses, however annoying to you per- sonally. Give the civil authority that degree of honor and attention which is due to him. " Honor, to whom honor is due" (Rom. xiii. 7). Try to support his authority, for it ultimately comes from God ; never underrate or disregard it. Make it a firm principle, never in the least to encroach upon his rights and privileges, nor to act as his men- 156 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS tor and adviser in matters concerning his office ; for many would take offence. Look upon his rights as sacred and inviolable ; yet oppose any infringement of ecclesiastical privileges with as much politeness as deter- mination. Without good reason do not interfere with purely civil matters. If the civil authority is at variance with some portion of the com- munity, prudent and impartial conduct on your part will be all the more necessary; let your one desire be to establish peace. Whilst observing all due attention and consideration for local authorities, beware of anything tending to familiarity, which, as experience shows, not unfrequently ends in discord. As a rule you will succeed best if you aim at friendly relations based on mu- tual esteem and on the ready acknowledg- ment and mutual support of your respective rights and powers ; for the rest, maintain a certain dignified reserve, and confine your- self to official intercourse. My son, "the children of this world are wiser in their generation than the children of light" (Luke xvi. 8) ; "therefore be wise as serpents and simple as doves" (Matt. x. 16) . " See therefore how you walk circum- PRIEST AND CIVIL AUTHORITIES 157 spectly, not as unwise" (Eph. v. 15), and do not lose sight of the fact that days of bitter strife may follow the pleasant days of peace. If in your just claims you meet with resist- ance or if anything is demanded from you which you must refuse, try quietly to smoothe over difficulties, to obviate possible misunderstandings, and to settle matters am- icably before you refer them to higher au- thorities. Be very careful to act with due consideration of the special circumstances prevailing in the ecclesiastical and civil life of the community. If the contest can not be avoided, act according to the principles which I have previously explained to you. CHAPTER V THE PKIEST AND THE SCHOOLMASTEK My son, do not underrate the importance of the schoolmaster in the parish. The growing generation is confided to his care and he contributes essentially to the reli- gious education of the young. He may train them to a good life or to a bad one, to esteem and reverence for Holy Church and her priests or to disregard and contempt of them. Through the children, again, he makes his influence felt with the parents. His good example is a source of edification for the whole parish, while misdemeanor on his part will cause scandal to all, and may cause ruin to many ; for a great number his opinion will be decisive and final, and they will follow him as their leader. For these reasons take great pains to make the schoolmaster well-disposed and loyal toward you. The harmonious co-op- eration of school and church is of the utmost 158 PRIEST AND SCHOOLMASTER 159 importance, and of incalculable advantage for your work in the cure of souls. Therefore show your teachers that you cherish benevolent feelings toward them and treat them with kindness and respect; for thus speaks the Apostle: " Loving one an- other with the charity of brotherhood, with honor preventing one another'' (Rom. xii. 10). You will not only yourself pay due respect to them, but will insist on others, especially the young, doing the same. Sup- port them in their work and incline rather toward praising their good qualities than reprehending their shortcomings and faults. With regard to school matters, let justice, and fairness, combined with love and char- ity, be your guiding principles. In difficul- ties raised by shortsighted and unreasonable parents, always take the part of the teacher. If the complaints are well-grounded, try to appease the accusing parties and admonish the teacher in private. But never, never give him a reprimand in the presence of the children or publicly before others. If the teacher is at the same time an offi- cial in the church, treat him rather in the capacity of teacher. Generously acknowl- edge the services he thus renders and the 160 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS sacrifices he has to make toward the glory of God, and show that you know how to ap- preciate the difficulties he has to overcome ; and you will see that he will take all these burdens upon himself with greater willing- ness. Do not turn a deaf ear to his fair and rea- sonable claims and wishes, but support them as far as lies in your power. But be it far from you, for the sake of any man, to be- come guilty of injustice. Take lively interest in the joyful and sad events in his family, and be to him a faith- ful friend and adviser. Assist him in the education of his own children with good counsel, and if need be with substantial sup- port. At all times show yourself kind and obliging toward him. If you thus deal with your teachers, ac- cording to the principles of justice and gen- uine charity, and be a fatherly friend to them, they must be truly ungrateful and unworthy if they do not become attached to you and do not esteem and love you sin- cerely. Devote special attention and care to the young teachers, for a great deal of good may PRIEST AND SCHOOLMASTER 161 be done this way and your influence may be- come a guiding star for their whole life. Show that you cherish in your heart a fa til- er 's feelings for them and try to deepen their Christian views of life by means of congenial intercourse and by providing them with suitable books. Encourage those who are more gifted to perfect their educa- tion more and more, instruct them how to find ways and means to accomplish it, and remain a fatherly and benevolent friend to them throughout their life. If unfortunately there is a teacher in the parish whose conduct leaves much to be de- sired, bear with him patiently and take pains to win him over with kindness and benevolence ; with harshness you will scarce- ly succeed. Should it ever happen that a master has fallen away from his religious duties, or, in an extreme case, has lost his faith, without however manifesting it ex- teriorly, do not deny him the conventional marks of respect, lest open enmity break out between you with all its baneful conse- quences. If you punish a bad teacher with contempt and treat him harshly, his heart will be more and more perverted, and to 162 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS spite you he will practise all kinds of chi- canery and annoyance, as long as he does not endanger his own position. Should discord and tension prevail among your teachers, spare no trouble or sacrifice to prepare the way for better relations. If dissension has unfortunately arisen be- tween yourself and one of the teachers, con- sider it a great evil for the whole parish, an evil which must be removed, if it is in any way possible. If the teacher has fallen out with you, make reconciliation easy to him; if the fault lies on your side, it is your bounden duty to take the first step to ter- minate the affair. Otherwise how can you preach peace to the world and reconcilia- tion to those who live in enmity? Make haste, therefore, and you will not only pre- vent those deplorable effects of long-stand- ing enmity, but also greatly edify those who look up to you as their model in everything. Should the teacher, however, be a man of such character as to exclude any reconcilia- tion, then Christian prudence will, in most cases, suggest the means of continuing your relations with the least possible friction. Disciple. Master, I will do my best to follow Thy instructions. Therefore I pray PRIEST AND SCHOOLMASTER 163 Thee, teach me how I am to regulate my social intercourse with the teachers; for it seems to me difficult to act correctly in this respect. Master. My son, ' ' in all things show thy- self an example of good works, in doctrine, in integrity, in gravity" (Titus ii. 7). With regard to social intercourse, remem- ber that both extremes are to be avoided. Make it a rule that you meet the teachers from time to time, in order to consult to- gether about the spiritual and moral welfare of the children. Besides this, I should rec- ommend occasional informal meetings for genial conversation. But that you may neither compromise your authority nor make the superiority arising from your ed- ucation, social position, and sacred office felt unpleasantly, try to combine a certain dignified reserve with familiar affability. Therefore do not take liberties, guard against giving the least offense, and be not guilty of the slightest breach of good man- ners. If you treat everybody with tact, re- spect, and politeness, no one will be able to accuse you of too free a behavior nor, on the other hand, of the narrowness of an over- exacting official. 164 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS And impress this lesson deeply on your heart: In social intercourse be cautious in what you say and faithfully attend to what appears in Holy Writ: "In the multitude of words there shall not want sin; but he that refraineth his lips, is most wise" (Prov. x. 19) . If anybody, it is the priest who has to be most careful in this respect. It is much better to speak too little than overmuch without consideration. It is much better to keep secrets for oneself than to confide them to others in unguarded moments. Indiscreet talk easily gives of- fence, diminishes your authority, robs you largely of your liberty in dealing with peo- ple, and may have most unpleasant conse- quences in times of quarrel or dissension. Weigh this well in your mind, my son, and do not forget what the Scriptures say : "Their tongue is a piercing arrow, it hath spoken deceit : with his mouth one speaketh peace with his friend, and secretly he lieth in wait for him" (Jer. ix. 8). CHAPTER VI THE PRIEST'S CONDUCT TOWARD WOMEN My son, "be not familiar with any woman, but recommend all good women in general to God."1 Many, bewitched by women, have fallen away from their faith and been ruined, because they were not mindful of their weakness and did not practise the necessary restraint and caution. Do not experience and history testify that almost all those unfortunate priests who have gone so far as to make shipwreck of faith and morality, have sunk so low be-, cause of their lack of caution in their con- duct toward women I Disciple. I know that I am a reed sha- ken with the wind. Why has the Lord called upon me, so weak and infirm, to be the pastor of women's souls too ? Why has He charged me, the poorest of all, to lead them to heaven, to console them in need and affliction, to counsel them in doubt, to assist i Imitation of Christ, i, 8. 165 166 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS them in sickness? But though I distrust my virtue, withdrawing myself entirely from them would be a sin against my voca- tion. How, then, shall I accomplish this difficult task, without coming to grief my- self? Master. It is true, you are made also their pastor ; but remember that though this task may be accompanied by manifold temptations and dangers, it is the Lord who has called you, and He indeed is powerful enough to direct everything to the greater good of your soul. You, however, must manfully strive after a pure intention and make use of the necessary precautions, which Holy Writ, the Church, and her holy Doctors so earnestly recommend to you. But that you may be quite safe, I will give you some special instructions. Even when teaching girls in school, your bearing should be characterized by gravity and seriousness, and you must avoid any- thing approaching favoritism or senti- mentality. Tenderness must be used with great caution; for it becomes the mother rather than the priest. See that, if possi- ble, you are never alone with a girl ; because there are persons in this suspicious world CONDUCT TOWARD WOMEN 167 who are only too prone to give a malicious interpretation even to the most harmless actions of a priest. Special caution and watchfulness are re- quired in visiting the sick of the other sex. Needless to say, they have a right to your consolation and assistance also, but it may easily happen that, moved by pity, you use tender language and become sentimental without being aware of it. Remember that for many priests this was the beginning of their fall. Therefore do not unduly pro- tract your stay; in your whole exterior ob- serve befitting earnestness and reserve, and if possible see that a third person be pres- ent, except, of course, in case of confession or spiritual guidance. Let me earnestly w7arn you not to act the doctor with the sick, especially with fe- males ; for this may not only be the cause of grave mistakes and extreme unpleasantness for you, but it has often been the beginning of moral aberrations for priests. With regard to the confessional, guard against showing any preference for the other sex; rather devote more attention to men, and by no means give people the slight- est reason to think that you have favorite 168 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS penitents among women. Such favoritism would lose you the confidence of many and lessen your influence as a director of souls to a most deplorable degree. Let your be- havior be neither harsh and repulsive, nor tender and emotional. May it rather be- token dignity and earnestness, combined with fatherly affection and kindness. As a rule aim at brevity in your advice in the con- fessional. Beware of curiosity, guard against at- tachments, and be especially brief, concise, and cautious in questions about the sixth commandment. Make it a principle to say less rather than more on such matters. Further, shake off that narrow-minded jealousy, if a penitent seeks another con- fessor occasionally. Do you not make use of this right yourself, when you find it con- venient? With regard to visitors of the other sex, especially of younger age, make it a firm rule, to admit only those who come on busi- ness or for some definite purpose. To occa- sion or encourage such visits is only ad- visable on very important grounds. To those who come for the sake of mere talking or for some other insufficient reason, give a CONDUCT TOWARD WOMEN 169 hint — and if necessary a very broad one — that you can use your time for more serious things and are by no means pleased at these unnecessary visits. Should you notice that somebody seeks opportunities to see you from a kind of secret attachment, then out- spoken brevity and coldness are a necessity. If custom does not require more civility, offer ladies a chair only after you have con- vinced yourself that the matter will take some time. Let girls who collect money to be handed over to you or those who come in the interest of their club, come with com- panions, if possible. When instructing con- verts, let them also have a companion, if circumstances allowr. Do not pay visits to ladies at all, unless they are necessary or highly desirable be- cause of social considerations or in the in- terest of souls. Frequent visitors without good reasons — and remember, the world has sharp eyes — may bring serious danger to you and grave injury to your good name. If you deem it necessary to visit families in which there are grown-up daughters, you will cause offence by paying exclusive at- tention to the latter. As it would be unbe- fitting to neglect them, so it is more becom- 170 RULES FOR PASTOR OF SOULS ing to make the parents, as a rule, the center of conversation. With all kindness and af- fability, impose upon yourself a certain re- straint, carefully weigh your words, and do not stay longer than is expedient and be- coming. In your whole bearing with regard to women, there must be nothing which might in any way compromise your sublime sac- erdotal dignity or cause temptation or danger to any one. Therefore carefully avoid all kinds of familiarity and utter- ances which might offend against delicacy of feeling or be liable to a less delicate inter- pretation. Consider that the world applies to the priest also that word of Scripture, "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh" (Luke vi. 45). Endeavor to acquire a dignified, grave and manly, yet fatherly and kind demeanor, which inspires everybody with confidence, esteem, and reverence. Let the place of your conversation with women be beyond sus- picion, and easily accessible to everybody. Guard your senses, especially your eyes, with all diligence in the Lord. Be it far from you to look at a woman with pleasure. CONDUCT TOWARD WOMEN 171 The eye of a woman unsettles the balance of the soul ; it has overcome many and brought them to ruin. How often has a tiny spark burst into an all-consuming fire! Beware also of any, even the slightest, touch, and unless good manners and custom require it, do not shake hands with women, nor ap- proach them too closely. The knowledge of your own frailty and still more of the greater frailty and excitability of the fe- male nature, may well be a powerful motive to follow these instructions. At social gatherings and excursions in which ladies take part, join the gentlemen by preference. It is better to commit a fault on the side of restraint than on that of liberty, better to say and do too little than too much, better to do and say nothing than ever so little which may be interpreted to your disadvantage, If only ladies take part, see that another priest, or, better still, a layman, accompanies you. Disciple. "I will do all things, which Thou hast commanded me" (Tob. v. 1). Only one question allow me to ask. What is the correct view with regard to presents which priests receive from ladies, and with 172 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS regard to the spiritual direction which priests are wont to give to pious souls out- side the confessional? Master. Let me advise you, my son, in general, not to accept from women presents which are meant for you personally. Those who live in poorer circumstances will cer- tainly feel it and perhaps resent it, because they are not in a position to imitate the rich. Moreover, you may rest assured that by ac- cepting such presents you decrease rather than increase your influence. For personal considerations will often prevent you from speaking with the necessary candor and straightforwardness and will limit your lib- erty of action. Apart from small conven- tional keepsakes of a pious nature, make no presents to younger ladies at all; it may easily encourage their vanity and vainglory and often cause scandalous talk. In giving pecuniary or other aid to young females, take the necessary precautions, lest mali- cious suspicion put a bad construction on your action. As to your other question, bear in mind that frequent communication with pious souls, especially of younger age, may not only cause temptations but also grave perils, CONDUCT TOWARD WOMEN 173 and this especially because one is less aware of the peril involved or even believes oneself proof against it. Therefore, rare cases ex- cepted, restrict spiritual direction to the confessional. Be frank with yourself in this matter. If a priest is particularly drawn to giving uncommon attention to younger persons of the other sex, and if the latter preferably approach younger priests for spiritual di- rection, are these the promptings of grace or the impulses of nature ? Remember that in the beginning the at- tachment may be more or less of a spiritual nature ; yet the of tener each sees the other, to converse about spiritual affairs, the greater becomes their intimacy. But the greater the intimacy, the greater also the danger of a natural inclination and attach- ment. In this respect pious souls are all the more attractive the holier they are. Thus it has happened more than once that what is of the flesh was mixed with what is of the spirit, and what began in the spirit ended in the flesh. Remember that Satan allures more souls into his nets by the at- tractive charm of innocence than by the open enticements of vice. 174 KULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS Therefore, my son, trust not to the strength of your virtue, nor to that of souls, however holy. Was not the heart of Solo- mon, in his old age, bewitched by women? For of him it is written, " And when he was now old, his heart was turned away by women, to follow strange gods" (3 Kings xi. 4). But who are you that you dare to seek the danger f Son, my son, fly those dangerous occa- sions. Call to mind over and over again, that the temptations of the concupiscence of the flesh are best overcome by flight. Now search your heart with light from on high and see if you do not entertain any at- tachment which may prove harmful to you ; see if you have not already been guilty of smaller faults, or if you have not already come to fall. Then, O my son, rise ! Eise without delay! Break asunder the bonds which have ensnared you! Tear yourself away from women ! How will you remove the flame from the fire, unless you extin- guish the fire itself? Is it not written "and if thy right eye scandalize thee, pluck it out and cast it from thee" (Matt. v. 29). Truly I say to you: "The kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent bear it away" (Matt. xi. 12). CHAPTER VII THE PRIEST IN RELATION* TO CLUBS Look around you, my son, and behold how ungodliness raises its head shame- lessly, not only in towns, but in the country also. See how everywhere hostile powers unite to combat all the more efficaciously, and if possible to annihilate, the Church and the whole Christian social order. Surely the followers of Christ must rally together and face their enemies in serried ranks and with united strength. Disciple. Long ago I recognized that unions and clubs are necessary, O Master! But I should like to learn what I must at- tend to principally in founding and man- aging such institutions. For I know from experience that many things have to be looked after and that not unf requently great difficulties are to be overcome. Master. My son, bear in mind that there exists a great difference between town and country. Whilst in the town, a greater 175 176 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS number of clubs is required on account of the various professions, one or two will be quite sufficient in a place in the country. Surely in these days of embittered struggle, a club will not only be very useful in most parishes, but it is absolutely necessary, to gather together grown-up youths and men, in order to train them in matters social, po- litical, and ecclesiastical. If there is a question of founding new clubs, especially in a country place, proceed with caution and prudence. Some have up- held the principle, the more clubs, the better for the Catholic cause. Yet they have in- variably been deceived in their expectations, and achieved no success; for by dividing their strength and energy they could not fully do justice to any one club. If, on the other hand, they had concentrated their full attention and energy upon one or two clubs, they would have found that one club, well guided and thoroughly managed, would bring forth most excellent fruit. In founding as well as in managing a club, you wTill do well not to put yourself too much forward, but to let zealous laymen of good reputation and character take precedence. In many cases it will be prudent and ad- PRIEST IN RELATION TO CLUBS 177 visable not to take the management of the affairs of the club into your own hands, but to have the office of spiritual adviser and counselor only. Further, consider it a mat- ter of no small moment, if you want your club to flourish, that only men of unselfish and irreproachable character be elected into the managing committee, men who take genuine interest in, and are ready to make sacrifices for its aims and ends. With regard to the ordinary members, take care that only worthy men are received. Those who are negligent in their religious duties or give scandal with regard to their morals, quarrelsome people, grumblers, ha- bitual drinkers, and other worthless fel- lows must be refused admittance under any circumstances. They would not only ruin the reputation of Catholic clubs in general, but also poison the atmosphere of their own club and overthrow all moral conceptions of Christian social life. Let the number of meetings correspond to the needs of the members. Few but well- prepared meetings with suitable lectures w7ill achieve much more than many badly prepared and aimlessly conducted. Apart also from the fact that a large sum of money 178 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS would thus be spent uselessly, many fathers of families would be drawn away from their homes without necessity. Your chief aim must be that your club re- mains true to the Catholic principles on which it was founded, and that you pro- mote its interest to the best of your power, in matters religious as well as social, such as the forming of character, the education and training of the individual members, and the material welfare and progress of the whole community. If these ideals are not partly at least realized, your club will not serve its purpose. It is, therefore, of vital importance that each club should have its specific manage- ment, with the one object in view to attain these ends as fully as possible. Thus, for instance, the choice and arrangement of lectures ought to be such as to be in complete harmony with the character and particular conditions of each club. Further, no meet- ing should be held without a definite pur- pose ; some substantial good ought to be its outcome, either for the spiritual or temporal well-being of its members. There is no need, on the contrary it would be a fault on vour side, to do all the work PRIEST IN RELATION TO CLUBS 179 yourself. It is part of Christian prudence rather, to look carefully after the training of suitable persons, in order to engage them as much as possible in the business manage- ment of the club, and to educate select mem- bers in such a way as to render them able to give appropriate lectures themselves. It will be of incalculable advantage if you succeed in getting respectable men of the higher classes to become interested in and to join Catholic associations and clubs. Their membership, and especially their open pro- fession of the Catholic faith by word and example, will make a deep and lasting im- pression on the ordinary man ; it will make him realize the strength, nobility, and beauty of his faith, and inspire him with a self-sacrificing spirit and enthusiasm for the objects of the club. With regard to yourself, strictly adhere to the rules of the club and do not trans- gress them in the least. Since you are their foremost guardian, you must be their most conscientious observer. Priests who make light of the regulations, do not reflect that this will not go unnoticed and will cause scandal to many. And is it not fair, that what is right for others should be right also 180 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS for you f If some of the rules require modi- fication, let it be done according to the stat- utes of the club. Thus your method of pro- cedure will stand on a firm and safe founda- tion, and you will have a legitimate answer, if reproaches, in time of excitement, should ever be made against you. Let your entire conduct be truly worthy of your priestly calling; be no less dignified than affable. Yet a certain degree of re- straint will always be required, lest you commit yourself in anything and diminish your authority. Be always mindful of the fact that the office of a spiritual director, w7ho from time to time will have to deal with the most divers and most delicate mat- ters, is a very heavy one; it will demand from you a generous measure of tact and self-control. Treat all without exception in the same attentive and kindly manner. Carefully guard against anything which might be in- terpreted as bias or ambition. Do not insist on your own opinion unduly, nor place your own personality always foremost ; this would give the impression that everybody must follow your lead, and it displeases many, causes ill-feeling, and casts a kind of blight PRIEST IN RELATION TO CLUBS 181 on a joyful co-operation of the members. Endeavor, rather, to win over influential members for your aims and plans, and ar- range matters so that they themselves take the initiative in making the respective pro- posals. Should it be necessary on some occasion to take energetic measures and carry a thing through with a strong hand, then act with all the discretion and moderation at your command. Act only after due considera- tion and never, never, in a passion ; for this might lead to most fatal consequences, of which you may bitterly repent. How often has it happened that members who felt of- fended have estranged many others from the priest and the club which he was direct- ing? On the other hand, consider that for- bearance and silence have their limits too. Grant the members full liberty in express- ing and ventilating their views and opinions. For it is not hesitating children you are to train and educate, but characters and per- sonalities, in short, men able to think and act independently. Only then will your club flourish and create enthusiasm and readiness for sacrifices, when the members find themselves called upon to give their 182 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS share of intellectual co-operation, and when far-reaching liberty and independence are secured to them. Endeavor to promote the spirit of sim- plicity, sobriety, and thrift among your men, and so to secure also the aims of a temperance society. But then it will be necessary for you to be irreproachable your- self and to set an example to all. Combat with all your might that un- healthy craving for pleasure and amuse- ment, which not only frustrates the noble aims of any club, but also leads to the ruin of temporal well-being and family life. See, therefore, that club festivities are re- duced or combined, if they follow in too close succession, whenever it can conven- iently be done, and take care that the meetings are neither too frequent nor too long. An institution conceived and directed in this way will be of very great profit, but a club badly managed and chiefly intended to provide pleasure and amusement will do more harm than good. One more urgent counsel I will add: Watch carefully over your health, and with all interest and zeal for your club, do not PRIEST IN RELATION TO CLUBS 183 neglect striving after true and solid virtue. Many priests have become so absorbed in club matters that they no longer took pleas- ure in serious mental pursuits, neglected their spiritual duties, and even their chief duty — the cure of souls. Do not imitate their example, lest you run the risk of be- coming responsible for the loss of the souls entrusted to your care and in the end of losing your own soul. CHAPTER VIII THE PRIEST IN HIS RELATIONS WITH PERSONS OF A DIFFERENT FAITH My son, thus speaketh the Lord to the priests of the whole wcfrld, "Go ye into the whole world and preach the gospel to every creature" (Mark xvi. 15). For "God will have all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth" (1 Tim. ii. 4). Since, according to God's holy intention, your work as a priest is not limited to Catholics only, but must necessarily extend to persons of all other beliefs, it can not be a matter of indifference what attitude you assume toward them. As far as lies in your power, you must take the greatest pains not to repel them in any way, but rather to at- tract them and make them susceptible of and well-disposed toward truth. To this end it will be of great value if those who profess another religion gather from your whole bearing the conviction that you yourself are most thoroughly convinced 184 PERSONS OF DIFFERENT FAITH 185 of the sanctity and sublimity of your priest- ly vocation, and that your whole being is imbued with and ennobled by the spirit of the Catholic religion. Let your modesty, your uprightness, and purity of character, your unselfishness and complete self-com- mand, bear witness to the fact that you are a zealous and self-sacrificing pastor, the friend and father of the poor, the consoler of the sick, the comforter of the afflicted, and a counselor to all. Thus your light will shine before men, if they see your good works, and you will be like unto a city set on a hill, which can not be hidden from any one. Never forget, my son, that the eyes of all are upon you. With this priestly perfection of life you must combine personal esteem and love for those outside the Church and sincere tolera- tion in social intercourse. Therefore, be as polite, affable, and fair-minded in dealing with them as with your own people. Too much reserve and silence will never gain the sympathy of outsiders, neither for yourself » nor for your cause, especially in countries where large numbers differ from you in religious belief; it rather leads to apathy or even repulsion. 186 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS As a priest, filled with lofty ideals and guided by exquisite refinement and social tact, you will certainly not deny that degree of esteem and delicate consideration for the religious sentiments of those outside the Catholic Church which you claim for your- self. It betrays a mean soul, a narrow heart, and lack of moral maturity, to have the audacity to invade the sanctuary of an- other 's religion with a wanton spirit. Even the pagans, who manifestly are given to a false religion, justly claim this tender con- sideration for their religious views and feelings. All this you must consider well in your heart, if official business, social considera- tion, or other reasons bring you into contact with people of another belief. On such occasions avoid conversations on religious topics and all kinds of allusions which might be interpreted wrongly or offend against the religious conviction of the other party. I advise you also to aim in your dealings with outsiders at forbearance and leniency in your judgment; for nothing makes a more favorable impression on them than a mild and gentle word from the lips of a priest. If you only succeed in impress- PERSONS OF DIFFERENT FAITH 187 ing them favorably, and if you can show them that you are not wanting either in del- icate tact or in education and social train- ing, and that you are no enemy of inno- cent joys and amusements, a good deal has been gained. Yet to achieve this, it is neither necessary nor advisable to be on the lookout for very frequent meetings with those outside the fold. Disciple. What Thou sayest is good and wise. But is there not a wide gulf between us and those outside the fold ? A continual combat between faith and heresy? And must not the followers of these opposing doctrines to a large extent be drawn into this contest ? Master. Indeed, my son, there is a wide gulf between faith and heresy, between light and darkness; but you must carefully dis- tinguish between error and its followers. Even granting that error, especially in mat- ters of religion, has no right to exist, just as little as has vice, yet this will not hinder you from considering its unfortunate victims as your brothers and from showing them sin- cere love and sympathy. A prudent pastor will feel all the more kindly toward them the more he appreciates the difficulties which 188 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS keep them from knowing and embracing the truth. Often it is birth and family ties; often it is early education and training, per- haps given with the expressed purpose of repelling them from the Catholic Church; often it is mere exclusion from everything Catholic; often it is the grossest prejudice imbibed in childhood, growing with their growth and intimately connected with those that have been nearest and dearest to them. There exists also a constant and bitter warfare between truth and error, a combat of doctrine against doctrine, a combat for souls which, however, should never degen- erate into a combat against persons ; a com- bat which is to be fought out in the regions of knowledge and is never to be carried into social life and political agitation, unless the cause of religion is at stake. What an amount of bias, spite, and mis- understanding would quickly disappear, if on both sides men fought solely for the truth, with fairness and dignity, without passion and bitterness, weighing everything on its own merits! Then, indeed, the way would slowly open to bring about that mu- tual understanding which Providence has ordained to come one day, the accomplish- PERSONS OF DIFFERENT FAITH 189 ment of which, however, is hidden from our eyes. That this contest be carried on with the weapons of charity and love will be par- ticularly necessary in countries where various religions hold sway; for only char- ity and love will bring about a salutary co- operation in the great aims of State and society and preserve peace and concord among the various denominations. From this it will be clear that it would be neither Christian nor prudent on your part, for example, to try to substitute a Catholic physician for one professing another creed, if the latter fulfils the duties of his profes- sion conscientiously and without religious bias. In the same way it wTould be a grave mistake if you took steps toward removing the head of some municipal body wTho is not a Catholic, in favor of a Catholic, if he was otherwise a deserving man. Apart from the probability that those of other denomina- tions will accuse you of bitter spite against their religion and on their part be provoked to retaliation, a want of success would cer- tainly be attended with much loss to your prestige and influence. Therefore it is ad- visable to wait patiently until death or other cause creates a vacancy, and then act 190 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS with prudence and fairness, but also ener- getically and decisively. It is evident that you should insist — and if necessary with emphasis — that in filling the more important vacancies the claims of the different candidates should be treated with full impartiality, irrespective of their religious faith. Since you have to defend sacred ecclesiastical rights, which it would be sinful to give up or compromise, you must show by your conduct that the prin- ciple, " Peace at any price," in these matters is not to be thought of. With regard to mixed marriages and the religion of the children resulting therefrom, you must uphold Catholic principles to their full meaning and extent, always "fortiter in re, sed suaviter in modo." If it should be necessary to deny Chris- tian burial to a Catholic, whereby non- Catholic relatives would also be affected, communicate it to the latter sympathet- ically, and as far as possible without hurting their feelings; on the other hand, do not omit to lay stress on the fact that you are not entitled, contrary to the laws of Holy Church, to force your services upon one PERSONS OF DIFFERENT FAITH 191 who during his lifetime severed himself from the Church. To ministers of other denominations al- ways exhibit that degree of kindness which they can rightly expect, and do not make yourself guilty of anything which might be interpreted as arising from spite or rude- ness. It may at times be of great advan- tage to settle some kinds of business orally rather than by writing; a discussion, car- ried on with the spirit of Christian charity and the sincere desire to come to a mutual understanding, may smooth over or entirely prevent strained relations and misunder- standings. PART rv 193 THE PRIEST IN SICKNESS My son, resign yourself in all things to the most holy will of God and be no less ready for suffering than for rejoicing. There is not sunshine every day; showers and lightning and boisterous storms must also come and one season must give way to another, so that all may combine toward one appointed end. In the same way, the sun of undimmed happiness will not smile upon you at all times; but you must pass through manifold trials and sufferings of body and soul, so that the fruit of your vir- tue may be brought to maturity and per- fection. Everything that befalls you has its par- ticular purpose in God's providence, if you only make use of it, in the right spirit, for the cleansing of your soul. There will come a day on which, in the brightness of eternal light, you will fully realize how everything, including sickness, was ordained by God to 195 196 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS the good of your soul and your eternal sal- vation. Enlarge your heart, my son, and learn in what manner sickness may be useful in your progress toward perfection. Sickness leads you, as it were, into soli- tude, rich in graces, where removed from the distractions of the world and free from your daily routine and work you will find leisure to turn your mind wholly upon your- self and to weigh in the long hours of suf- fering the good and evil you have done. In those sleepless nights, by the dim light of the candle, whilst everything around is hushed in a stillness like that of the grave, when nothing can disturb your meditation, your conscience will become to you a power- ful and irresistible preacher. Then fervent prayers will ascend to heaven, tears unseen by the world will flow, and resolutions and good promises, of which heaven alone is witness, will be made. God in His all-loving providence sends sickness and suffering, to bring home to you in the most effective manner the instability and vanity of the goods of this world; of health, riches, honor, high position, and all those things to which the natural man clings THE PRIEST IN SICKxNESS 197 with all the fibers of his heart. This suffer- ing and its results ought to purify the dim eye of your knowledge and teach you, from the depth of your conviction, to exclaim with Solomon: "Vanity of vanities, and all is vanity' ' (Eccles. i. 2) except to love God and serve Him alone. Only when di- vine grace, by means of sickness and other trials, has led you to despise earthly goods, will the highest perfections bud forth from your heart as from a most fertile soil. In suffering are buried, as in a rich mine, immeasurable treasures and jewels of in- terior and exterior mortifications, treasures which you must make your own by manfully overcoming yourself. How many sacrifices of patience can you offer up to God day after day; how many cares which weigh upon you can you generously place in the hands of your heavenly Father; how often can you practise meekness in dealing with those around you, when you experience care- lessness in nursing or are unusually irrita- ble ; what frequent opportunities for bearing patiently those smaller and greater humili- ations which your utter helplessness or special condition entails! By repeated practice you will acquire greater facility in 198 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS suffering patiently and in the end you will possess the virtues themselves. Thus suffering, accepted from the hand of God and borne in the right spirit, will bring forth such wonderful fruit, as is vain- ly sought for among people who know not the trials of sickness. Disciple. I acknowledge and confess in God's holy presence, that He is all- wise and exceedingly merciful, even in sending trials and chastisements. But Thou, O Lord, teach me what I should do to gain Thy ap- proval when I fall into a serious illness. Master. First of all, do not postpone the important business of making your last will until you are struck down by sickness or are near death. Many a priest has died intes- tate and his goods fell to people who had no claim to them. Take care that your will is in accordance with the laws of the country and free from informality, and that espe- cially when you leave something for pious purposes, lest it be set aside after your death. Provide for your parents, relations, and your household, if you can, as is just and befitting; but guard against enriching well-to-do relatives with the money you may have earned in the service of the Church. THE PRIEST IN SICKNESS 199 Rather fear the judgments of God and re- member from history that ecclesiastical property has seldom been a blessing to rela- tives. In the same way keep the books and regis- ters belonging to your ministry in good order, and keep an accurate list of your Mass intentions and of the alms received for pious purposes, so that you may be free from care and worry in this respect. If it should please God to visit you with a serious illness, do not omit to consult a physician in good time, and to make use of the proper means to overcome the disease. At the same time, ponder in your heart the words of Holy Writ: "Whom the: Lord loveth, He chastiseth" (Heb. xii. 6) and "the Lord, your God, trieth you, that it may appear whether you love Him with all your heart and with all your soul, or no" (Deut. xiii. 3). Remember that according to God's most holy intentions sickness ought to be to you what the furnace is to gold, the thrashing- floor and the mill to corn, the wine-press to the grape ; it is sent to purify, ennoble, and perfect your virtue as a priest. In order not to lose any of the fruits of 200 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS illness or suffering, have recourse to God from the very beginning of your sickness, and from the depth of your misery pray to Him who is all goodness that He may give you strength and grace to resign yourself absolutely to His most holy will, and to make all the sacrifices connected with your illness with a generous heart. Do not listen to the rebellious voice of nature, which shrinks from every kind of suffering and which will impel you to resist the arrangements of an all-wise God ; rather force your nature, with the help of divine grace, which you must incessantly implore, to be controlled by your free will, and say with holy resignation, "not my will, but Thine be done" (Luke xxii. 42); "Lord what wilt Thou have me to do?" (Acts ix. 6); "speak, Lord, for Thy servant hear- eth" (1 Kings iii. 10). If it pleases Thee to lead me through the furnace of sickness and suffering, Thy name be blessed ! This is the most sublime sacrifice which God will demand from you, that during the days of affliction you offer yourself up to His holy will with unconditional resigna- tion. Follow the example of the saints who have submitted themselves to the will of God THE PRIEST IN SICKNESS 201 with the whole energy of their love. If you do not bring yourself so far as to make this sacrifice and if you grumble or murmur against His visitations, all your works, be they ever so great, will find little acceptance in His sight ; for the very first thing which the Creator must demand from His creature is entire submission to His sovereign will. Submission unto God is, as it were, the sun, which sheds light upon all the good works you perform during your illness, and gives them their special value. Moreover, if you accustom yourself to of- fer up to God the generous sacrifice of your sufferings, in union with the passion of Our Lord and the merits of the saints, you will put the crown on your work and touch the heart of your heavenly Father. No incense is more pleasing in His sight than such a holocaust. Further, make the best use of the many precious occasions of mortification which will occur in sickness, and endeavor to attain to the greatest possible perfection in these acts of virtue. May the thought that each and every mortification, even the smallest, renders your heart more like to the Heart of Jesus and leads you to a higher degree 202 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS of eternal glory and nearer to your God, daily inspire you with renewed zeal and fervor. Should your illness be prolonged and make you wholly or partly unfit for your ministry, so dear to you, then proclaim yourself ready for this also, out of love for God. If you should suffer from many pri- vations, if you have no longer a home, if everybody seems glad to be rid of you as of a burden, then do not abandon hope; oh, then immerse yourself in your Saviour's in- finite ocean of suffering, suffering which began at His birth, accompanied Him through life, and only ended at His death on the cross ! How little, how insignificant, is your suffering compared to His? And have you no reason at all to do penance for your manifold sins? Consider, also, that as the heavenly Fa- ther chose sufferings for Jesus, His wrell- beloved Son, so also has the Saviour chosen the path of the cross for the saints, His elected friends, as the best and safest road to heaven. To empty the chalice of bitter- ness to the very dregs was for them the pledge of future glory. "Whom He fore- knew, He also predestinated to be made con- THE PRIEST IN SICKNESS 203 formable to the image of His Son" (Rom. viii. 29). But, my son, you will hardly be able to do all I have told you, unless you strengthen yourself as often as possible with the flesh and blood of your Saviour, who is the foun- tain of life and of priestly perfection. Blameworthy, indeed, would be those priests who, when confined to their bed, allowed their soul to suffer hunger for weeks, yea for months, instead of frequently partaking of the Bread of Life, the body of Our Lord, whilst formerly they had been used to com- municate daily in Holy Mass. Such indif- ference deeply wounds the Sacred Heart of Jesus. And what will the faithful say, when they perhaps learn that the priest himself does not practise that on which he had so frequently and earnestly insisted ! Remember how often you have spoken comforting words to the sick, with what zeal and fervor you urged them to receive the last sacraments, how frequently you ex- plained to them that Extreme Unction be- stows strength not only on the soul for the last and hardest struggle, but that it may be of great avail for the welfare of the body also. What you have recommended to 204 RULES FOR THE PASTOR OF SOULS others, practise now yourself. How cruelly does a priest act toward his own soul by putting off the reception of the sacraments to the last moment ! Therefore be most willing to receive them in good time and with full consciousness, and do not take it amiss if a relative or a good friend of yours suggests their recep- tion. If you are anxious to set your house in order, you will, whilst enjoying good health, ask a relative or a faithful friend to call timely attention, in the case of sickness, to the seriousness of your condition, so that you may not be deprived of one of the great- est graces of Holy Church. If, then, death approaches, and if you yourself feel or are told by others that all means and all efforts made by the doctor are of no avail, then, as a good priest, do not refuse to your Lord and God the greatest of all sacrifices, the sacrifice of your life. Then in the face of death you may confi- dently exclaim: "I am even now ready to be sacrificed, and the time of my dissolution is at hand. I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith. As to the rest, there is laid up for me a crown of justice, which the Lord, the THE PRIEST IN SICKNESS 205 just Judge, will render to me in that day" (2 Tim. iv. 6-8). "And now, O Lord, do with me according to Thy will, and com- mand my spirit to be received in peace" (Tob. iii. 6). ' My son ! ' ' The sufferings of this time are not worthy to be compared with the glory to come, that shall be revealed in us" {Rom. viii. 18). Embrace, therefore, your cross with holy joy and humble resignation, and hopefully expect the coming of the Lord; for after a short time of suffering He will lead you into the abode of joy everlasting. INDEX Accounts of church to be strictly kept, 199. Adherence to Catholic principles must be aim of Catholic clubs, 178. Adviser of schoolteacher, priest should be, 158. Afflicted, priest should comfort, 145. Altar, priest at, 3, 7. Ambrose, St., 27. Amusement, judgment to be used in, 53. Anti-clerics, how to treat, 148. Apostles, example for priest, 21, 152. Attention to education of children, 143; to studious youth, 146. Attitude of priest to influential men, 148; to civil authorities, 154; to teachers, 160; to women, 165; to those outside the fold, 184. Attire, to be neat, 32. Augustine, St., 27. Authority of pastor over housekeeper, 76; over curates, 90. Avarice to be abhorred, 31. B Baptism, priest in, 6. Beginning of priest's ministry, 133. Benefices, holders of, and parish priests, 125. Books of church to be strictly kept, 199. Boys, aid should be given to talented, 46, 142. Brevity, in confessional advice and in visits, 168. Burial, Christian, when it is denied, 190. 207 208 INDEX C Calling, be mindful of, 1. Care of health, 31, 50. Catholic press to be aided, 46 ; principles to be main- tained in clubs, 178. Causes of discord among priests, 123. Caution to be observed in making changes, 96 ; toward women, 165. Charity to poor, 26, 144; to curates, 93. Children to be guided, 143, 146. Choice of housekeeper, 59. Christ, imitation of, 18 ; what it means to follow, 20 ; lived in holy poverty, 23. Church and State, 154; and school, 158. Civil authorities and priest, 154. Clothing, priest's, 32. Clubs, priest and, 175; necessary and useful, 176; officers and membership, 177 ; chief aim of, 178. Cross, way of, leads to perfection, 20. Comfort the afflicted, priest should, 145. Common-sense necessary, 149. Co-operation of priest and flock, 141; with civil au- thorities, 154 ; with schoolteachers, 158. Concord among priests necessary, 118. Confession, seal of, 113 ; avoid favoritism in, 166. Confidence between pastor and curates, 92; do not misplace, 138. Contempt results from undue familiarity, 137. Contradiction, guard against, 99, 112 ; do not resent, 113. Conversation should be edifying, 111. Converts, instructing, 169. Counselor to unfortunate, priest should be, 145. Creditor, do not make housekeeper your, 75. Criticism to be guarded against, 100. Curates, and housekeeper, 84 ; should show considera- tion to parents of pastor, 87 ; and pastor, 88 ; to be treated as brethren, 92; to be consulted, 93; INDEX 209 Curates (continued) must be respectful, 95 ; should receive instruction willingly, 97; should be thankful for advice, 98; should guard against criticism, 99; should culti- vate simple tastes, 100; and neighboring priests, 102; should take apostles as models, 103; how they sow discord, 124. Cure